{"id":4392,"date":"2012-08-27T12:45:10","date_gmt":"2012-08-27T16:45:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/?p=4392"},"modified":"2012-08-30T14:11:22","modified_gmt":"2012-08-30T18:11:22","slug":"careful-the-wish-you-make-wishes-come-true-not-free","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/08\/careful-the-wish-you-make-wishes-come-true-not-free.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Careful the wish you make, wishes come true. Not free&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"passion donna murphy\" src=\"https:\/\/i419.photobucket.com\/albums\/pp276\/wilhelmina_murray\/passion\/PDVD_208.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"518\" height=\"346\"><\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/08\/weakness-as-strength.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">in my review of\u00a0<em>inSignificant<\/em><\/a>, I started teasing the next thread of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/08\/sondheim-symposium-sequence-index.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Sondheim Symposium<\/a>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>For Bobby to progress, he needs to make himself vulnerable and unsafe. \u00a0We think of him transitioning into the role of servant, as Christ does. \u00a0A future Bobby, we hope, won\u2019t still be able to be described as \u201cExclusive you! Elusive you! \u00a0Will any person ever get the juice of you?\u201d as he is in \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TJgMlwMGB3U\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">You Could Drive a Person Crazy<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If <em>Company<\/em> ends with a choice to give oneself (albeit it to an as of yet unspecified beloved), Passion\u2019s plot is driven by the difficulty of knowing of what to do when someone offers themself as a gift to you, unsolicited and possibly unwanted.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Pop over to Wikipedia, if you don\u2019t mind, and check out <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Passion_(musical)\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">the synopsis of\u00a0<em>Passion<\/em><\/a> (it almost certainly won\u2019t be staged near you any time soon, and, though you can and should <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B000093NR3\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000093NR3&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=unequyoked-20\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">order the DVD<\/a>, I don\u2019t think your experience will be spoiled by knowing the plot. \u00a0<em>Passion<\/em> derives a lot of it\u2019s tension from the\u00a0<em>how<\/em> more than the\u00a0<em>what<\/em>). \u00a0I do really encourage you to click the video links in this post.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike Bobby, Giorgio, the protagonist of <em>Passion<\/em>\u00a0is already giving of himself. \u00a0He\u2019s quick to assume the best of others, and lights up at the possibility to be of use or of comfort to anyone he encounters. \u00a0Unlike the other officers he serves with, he makes a personal connection with his men. \u00a0Giorgio is more open than Bobby, but it\u2019s not obvious whether he\u2019s more vulnerable. \u00a0At the beginning of the show, Giorgio has an <em>easy<\/em> grace; he shows none of the discomfort that Bobby calls down upon himself in<em>\u00a0<\/em>\u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=fjrA93_O6Dw\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Being Alive<\/a>\u201d \u2013 the closing number of <em>Company<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Giorgio\u2019s suffering begins when he becomes the focus of Fosca\u2019s love. \u00a0Fosca is ill and not beautiful, but she is most off-putting because of her relentlessness. \u00a0She pursues Giorgio without care for her own safety or his reputation. \u00a0To get a sense of her unmerciful-feeling love, watch \u201cLoving You\u201d below.<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Passion OBC - Loving You\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BOBodAd75W8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>Fosca\u2019s \u00a0love isn\u2019t a gift, it\u2019s\u00a0a force of nature, and Giorgio only gets to choose how to respond to it. \u00a0Over the course of the play, Giorgio will turn from his former love, the beautiful Clara, and cleave to the intense, upsetting Fosca. \u00a0The two women\u2019s loves stand in counterpoint to one another. Giorgio\u2019s first song with Clara is titled simple \u201cHappiness\u201d and, in their letters to each other, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8ariLdC2-8M\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">they talk about<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Love that fills every waking moment,<br>\nLove that grows every single day,<br>\nLove that thinks everything is pure,<br>\nEverything is beautiful<br>\nEverything is possible<br>\nLove that fuses two into one,<br>\nWhere we think the same thoughts,<br>\nLove the same things<br>\nLive as one.<br>\nFeel as one.<br>\nBreathe as one<br>\nLove that shuts away the world<br>\nThat envelops my soul,<br>\nThat ennobles my life<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>But while Giorgio and Clara feel completed by each other, Fosca approaches Giorgio with a brokenness that cannot be healed. \u00a0Instead of offering gifts that make the beloved more self-sufficient and stable, Fosca offers up weakness, and challenges her beloved to choose to discomfort himself in order to respond to and care for that weakness. \u00a0Regardless of what he chooses, Fosca will continue to humble herself\u00a0grotesquely\u00a0in pursuit of him.<\/p>\n<p>Bobby casts himself open, choosing to be vulnerable to the next woman to come his way. \u00a0Giorgio has\u00a0received\u00a0what \u00a0Bobby sought. \u00a0And tomorrow, I\u2019ll discuss why I found it terrifying the first time I saw it staged, and how Fosca\u2019s devotion is a weird inversion of the climax of\u00a0<em>1984<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday, in my review of\u00a0inSignificant, I started teasing the next thread of the Sondheim Symposium. 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