{"id":4403,"date":"2012-08-28T15:21:21","date_gmt":"2012-08-28T19:21:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/?p=4403"},"modified":"2012-08-30T14:11:50","modified_gmt":"2012-08-30T18:11:50","slug":"nobody-human-can-stand-all-that-everlasting-affection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/08\/nobody-human-can-stand-all-that-everlasting-affection.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Nobody human can stand all that everlasting affection!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><em>The quote is from\u00a0<\/em>Company<em>,<\/em><em> the subject is\u00a0<\/em>Passion<em>, as the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/08\/sondheim-symposium-sequence-index.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Sondheim Symposium<\/a> goes on. This installment includes spoilers for\u00a0<\/em>1984.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"passion donna murphy\" src=\"https:\/\/24.media.tumblr.com\/tumblr_m141iwN02d1qbj4zeo1_500.jpg%20\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"339\"><\/p>\n<p>At the climax of\u00a0<em>1984<\/em>, Winston is broken by the tortures in room 101. The moment that anihilates him and represents victory for Big Brother is the moment where he cries out:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Do it to her! Do it to Julia! I don\u2019t care what you do to her, but do it to her! Tear her face off! Do it to Julia, not to me! Do it to Julia! Not me!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>If this is betrayal, we might assume that true love would be offering to be tortured in order to spare Julia her suffering. \u00a0And, that, presumably, would be a beautiful and triumphal moment.<\/p>\n<p>But, in\u00a0<em>Passion<\/em>, when Fosca says to Giorgio \u201cWould Clara give her life for you? Would she? I would. Happily,\u201d he recoils (as does the audience). \u00a0What we expect to hear as the\u00a0fulfillment\u00a0of long love and intimacy is offered to Giorgio as an unasked for and unwanted gift. \u00a0Who could have the temerity to die for you without your permission?<\/p>\n<p>Look <a href=\"http:\/\/www.allmusicals.com\/lyrics\/passion\/isthiswhatyoucalllove.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">at the lyrics of Giorgio\u2019s rebuke to Fosca<\/a> and listen to \u201cIs this what you call Love?\u201d below. \u00a0(audio only, sadly)<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;Is this what you call love?&quot; (Passion, Donmar Warehouse, 2010)\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SUsokENQzWw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>After I saw\u00a0<em>Passion<\/em> in college, I felt sick. \u00a0When we discussed our impressions of the show in my Sondheim seminar, my hand was first in the air and I blurted out, \u201cThis is the most effective Nietzschean\u00a0propaganda about the horror of the weak subduing the strong by virtue of their weakness I could possibly imagine.\u201d \u00a0What I didn\u2019t say, thinking it was a little much for a seminar, was \u201cThis show is the clearest summary of what creeps me out about Christianity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Giorgio\u2019s declaration that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Love\u2019s not a constant demand,<br>\nIt\u2019s a gift you bestow<br>\nLove isn\u2019t sudden surrender<br>\nIt\u2019s tender and slow, it must grow.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>could easily come out of the mouth of the Ghost in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.godsman.net\/viewtopic.php?f=3&amp;t=881\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u201cMay I kill it?\u201d<\/a> scene in C.S. Lewis\u2019s <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0061774197\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0061774197&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=unequyoked-20\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The Great Divorce<\/a><\/em>. \u00a0But his lines are contradictory. \u00a0Love is a gift for\u00a0<em>Giorgio<\/em> to bestow, confident it will be wanted and needed. \u00a0But he won\u2019t allow other people to take on the role of gift-giver without his permission. \u00a0In fact, his assent is another gift for him give \u2014\u00a0<em>allowing<\/em> the other person to be generous to him.<\/p>\n<p>What is subtext for Giorgio is often text for me. \u00a0I empathized most with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2010\/09\/an-exercise-in-arrogance.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">the Ghost who doesn\u2019t want to enter heaven unless he can be\u00a0<em>of use<\/em><\/a>. \u00a0Giorgio and I are bad universalizers. \u00a0We\u2019re all right with an\u00a0asymmetry\u00a0of service as long as we\u2019re the ones sacrificing more. \u00a0So what can we do with the unfairness of grace? \u00a0For us, the tempting error isn\u2019t Lucifer\u2019s\u00a0<em>non serviam<\/em>, it is (to jump musicals) Javert\u2019s inability to accept mercy.<\/p>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=IFr6nk4ry4Y\">http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=IFr6nk4ry4Y<\/a>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The quote is from\u00a0Company, the subject is\u00a0Passion, as the Sondheim Symposium goes on. 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