{"id":4768,"date":"2015-06-18T06:44:05","date_gmt":"2015-06-18T13:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/unfundamentalistchristians\/?p=4768"},"modified":"2016-05-16T19:18:06","modified_gmt":"2016-05-17T01:18:06","slug":"warning-this-world-has-redefined-the-word-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unfundamentalistchristians\/2015\/06\/warning-this-world-has-redefined-the-word-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Warning! This World Has Redefined the Word Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

\"love-meme\"<\/p>\n

A UC reader recently shared the above image via our Facebook Page<\/a> (you have Liked our FB page<\/a>, right?). Since we\u2019ve tackled \u201cChristian\u201d memes in the past<\/a>, and since this one conveys sentiments that we regularly hear from our friends on the (far) right of the political and theological spectrum, I thought I\u2019d take a moment to address its not-so-subtle points.<\/p>\n

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  1. This world has redefined the word love<\/strong>
    \nThis world (as opposed to other worlds?) definitely hasn\u2019t redefined the meaning of the word love. Love has a standard     dictionary definition<\/a> that, as far as I\u2019m aware, still accurately reflects modern usage.<\/li>\n
  2. Acceptance of all false religions<\/strong>
    \nNo one should accept any false religion, let alone all<\/em> false religions. Why on earth would you believe something that\u2019s false? What we should do, however, is accept the reality that many people have religious beliefs that differ from our own, and that, from their perspective, we\u2019re<\/em> the ones who hold to a false religion. And, given that disparity, the best way to promote peace and understanding is to avoid terms like \u201cfalse religion\u201d entirely and instead seek to find common ground and shared beliefs.<\/li>\n
  3. Tolerance of all sinful behavior<\/strong>
    \nAs long as sinful behavior doesn\u2019t break the law or directly affect our lives, we do have to tolerate it. This doesn\u2019t have anything to do with love, it\u2019s just life.<\/li>\n
  4. Tolerance of false doctrines<\/strong>
    \nWe also have to tolerate false doctrines. And others have to tolerate our own false doctrines. Again, nothing to do with love, just a necessary consequence of a multi-faceted religious landscape. Unless you really<\/em> want a straight-up theocracy, you\u2019re going to have to live with other people\u2019s false doctrines, and they\u2019re going to have to live with yours.<\/li>\n
  5. Refusal to rebuke & expose anyone<\/strong>
    \nWe\u2019re entirely free to rebuke and expose anyone, as long their lives are either in the public square, or directly intersect with our own. If someone\u2019s minding their own business, then there\u2019s absolutely no reason why we should be rebuking them for anything. But pastors, politicians, business leaders, policy makers \u2014 those people are generally fair game and we should<\/em> carefully critique their words and actions.<\/li>\n
  6. Never offend anyone with truth<\/strong>
    \nWe should never try to offend anyone, for any reason. That doesn\u2019t have anything to do with love, it\u2019s just common decency. We should always try to conduct ourselves with civility and decorum, and thinking we\u2019ve cornered the market on truth is never grounds for throwing good behavior out the window.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    What I suspect lies behind the trite missives of this meme is the idea that liberal Christians have capitulated on any number of theological issues \u2014 homosexuality, hell, abortion, evolution, biblical inerrancy, and myriad other \u201cessential\u201d issues \u2014 and that, in order to mask our heretical and self-serving beliefs, we hide behind a watered-down and distorted view of love.<\/p>\n

    I\u2019ll readily concede that love has been redefined. It\u2019s been redefined by those who are afraid of losing the power of the existing socio-religious structure. It\u2019s been stolen by those who want to vigorously police the boundaries of orthodoxy. It\u2019s been twisted by those who call us to \u201clove the sinner and hate the sin\u201d even as they conflate the two and end up hating both.<\/p>\n

    Indeed, for those whose theological livelihood has been built on fear, hate, and authoritarian control, it\u2019s anathema that love can\u2019t<\/em> be redefined, that, regardless of their efforts, love will always<\/em> mean patience, kindness, compassion, humility, honor, selflessness, and forgiveness.<\/p>\n

    Regardless of our specific stance on social or theological issues, warning the denizens of Facebook about the dangers of redefined love by means of inaccurate and inflammatory rhetoric utterly fails to exhibit the true hallmarks of the very virtue in question:<\/p>\n

    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
    \n\u2014 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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    \"DanDan Wilkinson<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Dan is the Executive Editor of the Unfundamentalist Christians blog. He is a writer, graphic designer and IT specialist. He lives in Montana, is married and has two cats.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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