{"id":78,"date":"2010-09-23T16:04:24","date_gmt":"2010-09-23T16:04:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/experts.patheos.com\/expert\/frederickwschmidt\/2010\/09\/23\/healing-church-hurtful-church\/"},"modified":"2010-09-23T16:04:24","modified_gmt":"2010-09-23T16:04:24","slug":"healing-church-hurtful-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/whatgodwantsforyourlife\/2010\/09\/healing-church-hurtful-church\/","title":{"rendered":"Healing church, hurtful church"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>We had dinner with friends last night and we began talking about the emerging church phenomenon \u2014 the latest effort to re-boot the church by breaking ties with the long-established denominational structures that have dominated recent Christian history. In passing, one of our friends observed, \u201cWell, I haven\u2019t been hurt by the church, so I find it much harder to turn my back on the day to day reality that we identify as church.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was really jarred by the observation (though I didn\u2019t say so), but that is precisely the point for a lot of people. Many \u2014 not all \u2014 but many who are ready to start over with church have been hurt by it. \u00a0So they are ready to tear the walls down, start over, or simply abandon it altogether.<\/p>\n<p>And who could blame them?\u00a0 Between the big-news-abuse and the small-world-cruelties, the institution that holds out hope to people in Jesus\u2019 name is often the engine of just as much hurtful behavior, as it is healing touch.<\/p>\n<p>The problem, of course, does not lie in the established structures themselves.\u00a0 Oh, the structures have institutionalized some of the abusive behavior to be sure.\u00a0 But over time, new structures, no matter how small, homegrown, or local in orientation will begin to manifest the same range of healing and hurtful behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWherever we go there we are.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The fundamental difficulty in any reformation of institutions is that it is devoted to reforming the wrong thing.\u00a0 That is why churches that are devoted to anything but God will fail and hurt us.\u00a0 It is only God who can call the church\u2019s behavior into question and the reformation starts with the people who attend it.<\/p>\n<p>So:<\/p>\n<p>Lay people need to take responsibility to call their clergy to account for their behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Clergy need to hold one another and their bishops accountable for their behavior.<\/p>\n<p>And together, lay people and clergy need to insist on the primacy of worship and devotion.<\/p>\n<p>That last one may seem a bit strange, but if God isn\u2019t a living reality for a church that calls the people who attend them into a life of vulnerable service and care for one another and those around them, then the church will do what people do when they are left to their own devices:<\/p>\n<p>They will hurt one another without repenting.<\/p>\n<p>They will live out of their own brokenness and pride.<\/p>\n<p>And over time the vanity on display in individual lives will grow large and take on a life of its own.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not an easy assignment.\u00a0 It is certainly harder than pushing the old thing over and starting all over.\u00a0 And the fact that starting all over won\u2019t change anything should be no source of comfort to the powers that be.\u00a0 But healing follows on acknowledging hurts.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We had dinner with friends last night and we began talking about the emerging church phenomenon \u2014 the latest effort to re-boot the church by breaking ties with the long-established denominational structures that have dominated recent Christian history. 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