Derrick Dillard’s new blog tells husband’s to have sex with their wives 5 to 6 times per week. The latest post by Derrick is a followup to one written by his wife in June. The couple has been open about their sex life in recent months.
According to a new blog titled “Hot Love: How to Love Your Wife Like You Mean It,” Derrick Dillard lays out the steps men should take to please their wives. Derrick’s first piece of advice to men is to have sex with their wives five to six times per week.
“Have lots of good sex! You both need this time together regularly (5-6 times (or more) a week is a good start). Guys, you need to keep yourself “joyfully available” for your wife, because only you can fulfill certain desires she might have.”
Derrick says that marriages can become stagnant over the years. After five years of marriage, he asserts that he is not an expert. However, Derrick believes that regular sex is the key to a happy marriage. By his admission, he’s getting freaky with Jill nearly every day of the week.
Interestingly, Jill Dillard’s blog for women suggested that wives should have sex at least three to four times per week with their husbands.
With Derrick suggesting daily sex and Jill advising sex every other day, which one should spouses follow?
Additionally, with so much sex happening in the Dillard household, it surprises the couple hasn’t welcomed another child yet.
According to the couple’s fundamental belief system, men and women are not supposed to use birth control. Are the Dillard’s using birth control and breaking a cardinal sin?
Beyond copious amounts of sexy time, Derrick Dillard reminds men to be their family’s spiritual leader, remain humble, and protect their wives.
Most of Dillard’s advice is pretty standard Christian marriage advice. He tells husbands not to go to bed angry, show affection to their wives, and to always speak kindly about their spouse to others.
However, one nugget of advice highlights the backward beliefs the couple have about the opposite sex. Dillard suggests that men need to make their wives feel secure in their relationship.
According to Derrick, he and Jill use a filter on their phone and laptop to prevent them from viewing naughty content. Additionally, he states that spouses should provide one another with their passwords to all electronics.
To up the ante of commitment, Derrick recommends that men and women never be alone in a room with someone of the opposite sex.
“Never be alone in the same room with someone of the opposite gender. Sometimes this is hard and requires more intentionality. For example, if I have a private meeting with a female, I may choose to leave the door open, or if Jill needs a repairman to come work on something at the house when I’m gone then she might invite a friend over while he’s there.We realize though that safeguards alone aren’t enough…it is more about the heart and commitment to purity, but they may be helpful in reducing the prevalence of some situations, or even just the appearance of evil.”
According to the Dillards, being in a room with someone of the opposite sex could lead to indecent behavior. The fact that Jill has a friend over when repairmen come to the home is a weird decision.
Have the Dillard’s been watching too many adult films? Not once in my life has a repairman ever come on to me in my home.
Derrick and Jill Dillard are a bit more progressive than her ridiculously backward parents. However, their indoctrination and brainwashing run extremely deep.
However, Derrick told the world clearly that he and Jill are getting down and dirty every day.
TMI, Derrick, TMI.
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