{"id":1026,"date":"2010-11-05T14:35:00","date_gmt":"2010-11-05T14:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2010\/11\/because-the-sacrament-of-reconciliation-can-happen-anywhere-at-any-time\/"},"modified":"2017-01-24T18:31:12","modified_gmt":"2017-01-24T23:31:12","slug":"because-the-sacrament-of-reconciliation-can-happen-anywhere-at-any-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2010\/11\/because-the-sacrament-of-reconciliation-can-happen-anywhere-at-any-time.html","title":{"rendered":"Because the Sacrament of Reconciliation Can Happen Anywhere, At Any Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/TNRK_m62w2I\/AAAAAAAAAgs\/g94N1d10xPI\/s1600\/child-praying.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/TNRK_m62w2I\/AAAAAAAAAgs\/g94N1d10xPI\/s200\/child-praying.jpg\" width=\"200\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>It\u2019s not my intention to make my child look bad. Suffice it to say, one of our sons made a serious lapse in judgment the other day. He did something wrong and he knew it. My husband and I told him so and he was contrite. We\u2019ve grounded him for a week. And then this morning, our son and I stopped by our parish after the 8 a.m. Mass so he could go to confession. I reminded him to lay it all out on the table, to leave no aspect of this unfortunate incident unsaid.<br><a name=\"more\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><br>Our parish doesn\u2019t schedule confessions on Friday mornings. But one wonderful aspect of Catholicism is that a priest is available at any time and in any place to hear a confession. This tells us God\u2019s mercy is always available. My son and I walked up to our priest in the sacristy of the eucharistic chapel after Mass. \u201cHow are you doing?\u201d he said to both of us with a smile.\u201dFine,\u201d I said, drawing my eyes to my son. \u201cSo did you want to talk to me about something?\u201d our priest asked our son. He nodded and they walked down the hall to his office.<\/p>\n<p>The power to forgive a sin doesn\u2019t belong to me, or to a priest. It belongs to God alone. Christ told his apostles:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/cathen\/01407b.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\"><i>Amen<\/i><\/span><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>I say to you, whatsoever you shall bind upon earth, shall be bound also in\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/cathen\/07170a.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\"><i>heaven<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>: and whatsoever you shall loose upon earth, shall be loosed also in<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/cathen\/07170a.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\"><i>heaven<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>.<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>Again I say to you, that if two of you shall consent upon earth, concerning anything whatsoever they shall ask, it shall be done to them by my<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/cathen\/06608a.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\"><i>Father<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>who is in<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/cathen\/07170a.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\"><i>heaven<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>.<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0For where there are two or three gathered together in my<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/cathen\/10675a.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\"><i>name<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><i>, there am <a href=\"http:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/bible\/mat018.htm#vrs18\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">I in the midst of them.<\/a><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>About 10 minutes later, my priest and my son came down the short hallway from his office and my son went directly into the chapel to pray. As we were heading to the parking lot, I told him how proud I was of his humility and his bravery in making a confession. I told him now that he has apologized to his parents, and to God, we didn\u2019t need to discuss this incident further, unless he wanted to. I reminded him that confession is not a Get out of Jail Free card \u2013 that we can go ahead and sin and figure we can always confess \u2013 but when we stumble, and we will, we need to apologize to those we have harmed and to ask God for forgiveness. I told him God loves us always and God is always ready to forgive.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style=\"border-collapse: separate;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: medium;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-top: 0px\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><br><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"border-collapse: separate;font-family: 'Times New Roman';font-size: medium;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-top: 0px\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\">And then my son and I went out for breakfast.\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"border-collapse: collapse;font-family: 'Times CY', 'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size: 16px\"><br><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/6738513599344023043-8965794686444899521?l=yimcatholic.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not my intention to make my child look bad. 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