{"id":10453,"date":"2012-09-13T08:32:41","date_gmt":"2012-09-13T13:32:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/?p=10453"},"modified":"2017-01-24T17:56:46","modified_gmt":"2017-01-24T22:56:46","slug":"rebecca-hamilton-on-how-we-become-monsters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2012\/09\/rebecca-hamilton-on-how-we-become-monsters.html","title":{"rendered":"Rebecca Hamilton On How We Become Monsters&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/85\/2012\/09\/halloween_monsters.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10458\" title=\"halloween_monsters\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/85\/2012\/09\/halloween_monsters.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"405\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If this post doesn\u2019t cut you to the quick, nothing will. Put on the shoes of the other side, and recall clearly where <a href=\"http:\/\/plato.stanford.edu\/entries\/consequentialism\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">consequentialism<\/a> leads, and how if we let it, it will damn us all to Hell.<!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>But\u00a0<strong>when you go down that path of using one evil to justify another evil you end up committing even greater evils yourself.<\/strong>\u00a0If you really aren\u2019t a monster who has no conscience or concern for other people, you look for ways to hide what you are doing from yourself. The greatest lies of our times are the lies we tell ourselves to justify doing things that we know are wrong. What makes it work is that the whole culture conspires with us in the doing of it.<\/p>\n<p>The culture, not just of Planned Parenthood, but of our whole American world, says that you can not, you should not, you must not \u201cjudge.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As with most lies that are effective, this one has truth mixed into it. The desire to play God runs strong in all of us. I think that if we had the power to enact our judgements on one another, none of us would go to heaven. We would all condemn one another to hell.<\/p>\n<p>But using the word \u201cjudgement\u201d itself as a condemnation is not only idiotic, it\u2019s destructive. The human brain is designed by Our Maker to observe, compare, think and conclude. These conclusions are just another word for \u201cjudgement.\u201d\u00a0When our culture labels this power to discern and decide an evil; when it shears our thinking brains away from us, we become a culture of co-dependence and mental decay.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s as if we\u2019ve all suffered a cultural stroke and the words \u201cthis is wrong\u201d have been erased from our minds.<\/strong>\u00a0Instead of saying the plain facts of things, we go into mental gymnastics, trying to \u201cunderstand\u201d the most hideous behavior. We create fantasy motives for crimes against humanity which are tissues of lies we tell ourselves. These fantasy interpretations of the plain reality in front of us help us silence the thinking, analyzing parts of our brains. They allow us to avoid the social anathema of being labeled \u201cjudgmental.\u201dWe find ourselves unable to set standards for behavior for anyone, including ourselves.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That is how a basically kind-hearted person can become a monster.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The great irony is that the flip side of this is no better.\u00a0If we take the untrammeled power to judge others onto ourselves, we unleash the monsters of condemnation, discrimination and, inevitably, killing of innocents. That\u2019s where the gulags, pogroms, lynchings, rapes and murders come from. On the other hand, if we flee from this into a refusal to \u201cjudge,\u201d we unleash the monsters of condemnation, discrimination and, inevitably, killing of innocents. That\u2019s where the attacks on Christians, abortions, euthanasia, and starvation of millions for corporate greed come from.<\/p>\n<p>We can whipsaw our human nature from pole to pole; from legalistic judging to fear of judging that becomes another kind of legalistic judging, and we always end up right back where we started from. We are caught forever in the morass and mess of original sin and we cannot think, moralize or fight our way out of it.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing that can save us is the cross. The only One who can save us is Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>I know. Because He saved me.\u00a0My first reaction to that video was anger. Then, I indulged in a few minutes of self-righteousness by remembering what I went through trying to help pass a bill to lessen the practice of sex-selected abortion. Finally, I came around to the truth: That counselor could have been me, was me, is me, without Christ.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Human beings become monsters when we take the deciding of right and wrong, good and bad, on ourselves without reference to the One who made us.<\/strong>\u00a0Nothing we can do, and I mean NOTHING we can do, can save us from this. You can go to church, sing in the choir, read the Bible, but if you do these things on your own power and by your own lights, you can and you will become a monster to somebody. You may not have an abortion. But you\u2019ll do something.<\/p>\n<p>We are not saved by ourselves, of ourselves, or even for ourselves. Our salvation comes through the humiliation of the cross and the only honest way we can approach that cross is with humility.<\/p>\n<p>The only salvation we have is at the foot of the cross.<\/p>\n<p>The counselor in that video could have been me.<\/p>\n<p>When you look around at the sins of the world, which of them could be you?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/publiccatholic\/2012\/09\/she-could-have-been-me\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Go read the entire thing<\/a>, watch the embedded video, and reflect on it. Because <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2011\/11\/to-become-fully-human-a-work-in-progress.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">becoming fully human is a lifetime project<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/85\/2012\/09\/wrong-is-wrong.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-10454\" title=\"wrong is wrong\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/85\/2012\/09\/wrong-is-wrong-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 If this post doesn\u2019t cut you to the quick, nothing will. 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