{"id":1217,"date":"2010-05-28T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-05-28T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2010\/05\/because-god-makes-me-secure\/"},"modified":"2017-01-24T19:02:37","modified_gmt":"2017-01-25T00:02:37","slug":"because-god-makes-me-secure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2010\/05\/because-god-makes-me-secure.html","title":{"rendered":"Because God Makes Me Secure"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 22px;margin: 0px 0px 20px;padding: 0px\"><i><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">I \u201cmet\u201d Ricky Jones earlier this week after he responded to a <a href=\"http:\/\/yimcatholic.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/because-church-is-universal.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">guest post<\/a> on the universality of the Church. Meredith Cummings\u2019 post talked about how, as a white woman and a convert, she grew to understand the Church is not just for Hispanics. Her post spoke to Ricky, who is an African-American man married to a Latina. Ricky, also a convert, designs websites for Catholics. \u00a0He \u00a0is an advanced student at the Instituto\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: #666666;line-height: normal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.archdiocese.la\/learning\/ore\/bible\/espanol\/index.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">de Formaci\u00f3n B\u00edblica,<\/a> <span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black\">sponsored by the Archdiocese of Los Angeles.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/i>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S_8VTRksxOI\/AAAAAAAAASg\/dFTy5M7AYGs\/s1600\/we_are_safe_in_GOD__s_hands_by_maddy_mk.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"145\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S_8VTRksxOI\/AAAAAAAAASg\/dFTy5M7AYGs\/s200\/we_are_safe_in_GOD__s_hands_by_maddy_mk.jpg\" width=\"200\"><\/a><i>Guest post by <a href=\"http:\/\/websitesforcatholics.cristoenmi.org\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Ricky  Jones<\/a><\/i><br>I wasn\u2019t born Catholic\u00a0nor have I been a Catholic for very long.\u00a0I\u00a0was baptized about two years ago.\u00a0Like most people, I never thought I did wrong, or that I was a sinner. I didn\u2019t even know what sin was. Until the age of 23, no one ever had taught me anything about God. All I knew was that some people believed that He created us and that if we don\u2019t do His will, we\u2019re going to go to hell. I met my girlfriend, Johana, five and a half years ago in Phoenix, and thanks to her and her family, if not God Himself, I began to learn about God.<br><a name=\"more\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><br>I would go with her and her family to Mass every Sunday, but just to go. I didn\u2019t understand the majority of what they said in church. They are Mexicans and were all raised as Catholics. At the beginning, I didn\u2019t want to know anything about religion, because in school they had taught me that God doesn\u2019t exist and that we come from monkeys. That\u2019s probably why I came out so hairy. My mother was never \u201creligious,\u201d and did she not teach me anything about God. <\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 22px;margin: 0px 0px 20px;padding: 0px\">I started taking RCIA\u00a0classes in English\u00a0because I didn\u2019t feel prepared to take them in Spanish yet. I had been taking the classes for a few months when we decided to move to Los Angeles. We felt secure because we both had good jobs and we were both able to transfer. I worked from home as a web designer and she as a sales associate in a high-end clothing store. It was her parents who didn\u2019t feel so sure about our move. Her father had been out of work for six months and they had sold most of their belongings to start fresh in California.\u00a0\u00a0Johana always told me that she wanted to get married in the Church and I would always respond that I didn\u2019t want to get married at all. But one Sunday while she was at work, I decided to go to Mass alone. It was there that I felt God\u2019s presence for the first time. It was the first time that I actually listened to what the priest was saying. But it was not what they said that impacted me, it was a feeling that \u201cwoke me up.\u201d I felt a calling from within that I could not explain and since that moment I decided to convert to Catholicism.<\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 22px;margin: 0px 0px 20px;padding: 0px\">We faced many problems as we arrived in Los Angeles. First, the people who had invited us to stay in their house (all seven of us in one bedroom) got angry with us and we had to go out and find a place to live. I found a two-bedroom apartment and we lived much better there. I had to start the RCIA classes all over again, but this time Johana joined me because she wanted to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. We were a small group of six or seven people, but we really liked the sister who was our catechist. After being baptized, confirmed, and receiving the Eucharist for the first time, I felt\u2026 the same. We even had a party since it was also my birthday and I drank way more than enough. I didn\u2019t change my mindset or my lifestyle, because I didn\u2019t think I was doing anything wrong.<\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 22px;margin: 0px 0px 20px;padding: 0px\">About six months later, we began to grow closer to the church. We regularly attended a prayer group and we really enjoyed the singing and dancing. One night in the group they asked, \u201cWho has fear of losing their job?\u201d Obviously I, the American with the good job who earned good money, was the only person who didn\u2019t raise his hand. I was secure in my job because I was always told by my co-workers that they loved my work. The same week I was on the phone with my father and he asked me the same, \u201cAre you secure in your job?\u201d Again I respond, \u201cof course.\u201d It seems I was a little arrogant, I\u2019m sure. The next day I was speaking with my supervisor about a project we were working on, when he casually mentions, \u201cOh\u2026 we need to talk, me, you, and someone from human resources. We are experiencing a reduction in force and they told me I had to let someone go, and I chose you.\u201d I was speechless, probably because I thought I was \u201csecure.\u201d<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 22px;margin: 0px 0px 20px;padding: 0px\"><a href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S_rkxN0zbXI\/AAAAAAAAASA\/HdUFoZL4o6g\/s1600\/Prayer+%281%29.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S_rkxN0zbXI\/AAAAAAAAASA\/HdUFoZL4o6g\/s200\/Prayer+%281%29.jpg\" width=\"138\"><\/a>After I hung up the telephone, I began to cry. But something made me fall to my knees and I told God, \u201cThank you my Lord. I know there is a reason for this. I know that you want me to be humble and that you will give me a better job than this one.\u201d This is was the moment that I was reborn.\u00a0I still haven\u2019t found another job. I now run my own business as a website designer, focusing on <a href=\"http:\/\/websitesforcatholics.com\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">websites for Catholics.<\/a> Most importantly, I have found God and His word. He has taught me so many things. I feel richer than ever. Not rich in money, but rich in love, faith, wisdom, understanding, and much more.We have had many problems between us, with family and with neighbors, but with God as the center of our relationship and our family life, everything came out fine. Thank the Lord, we married in August. Every day, I give thanks to God for the changes He has made in me. My wife and I now are Eucharistic Ministers at our parish,<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black;line-height: normal\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.archdiocese.la\/directories\/parishes\/info.php?parish_id=285\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">Mary Immaculate Catholic Church \u00a0in Pacoima, CA<\/span><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">,<\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black;line-height: normal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: black;line-height: normal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">where<\/span><\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">\u00a0I<\/span> a<\/span>lso serve as a lector.<\/div>\n<div style=\"line-height: 22px;margin: 0px 0px 20px;padding: 0px\">I give thanks for the transformation He has made in my life. Now I can say I am truly secure.<\/div>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/6738513599344023043-7724266817286763583?l=yimcatholic.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I \u201cmet\u201d Ricky Jones earlier this week after he responded to a guest post on the universality of the Church. Meredith Cummings\u2019 post talked about how, as a white woman and a convert, she grew to understand the Church is not just for Hispanics. 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