{"id":1283,"date":"2010-04-13T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-04-13T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2010\/04\/because-we-need-to-believe-in-goodness\/"},"modified":"2017-01-24T19:04:26","modified_gmt":"2017-01-25T00:04:26","slug":"because-we-need-to-believe-in-goodness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2010\/04\/because-we-need-to-believe-in-goodness.html","title":{"rendered":"Because We Need to Believe in Goodness"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S8OE3xQ5j9I\/AAAAAAAAAGc\/3OoxzYcuhUE\/s1600\/St.Thomascross.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S8OE3xQ5j9I\/AAAAAAAAAGc\/3OoxzYcuhUE\/s320\/St.Thomascross.jpg\"><\/a><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">Today my heart is heavy. I was daunted to discover over the weekend what happens when parents are too busy, too distracted, too \u201csuccessful\u201d to bother rearing their children. The details are immaterial, but the consequences are clear: some\u00a0children whom I have known since they were in diapers have lost their innocence far too soon.<\/span><br><a name=\"more\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><br><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">I cling to my faith. After hearing Sunday\u2019s homily about Saint Thomas the Apostle, I was planning to write about how Thomas\u2019s doubt reminds us that faithful people doubt. It does. But now I see Thomas more deeply. When most of us think of St. Thomas the Apostle, we think of \u201cdoubting Thomas,\u201d the one apostle who needed to <\/span><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/nab\/bible\/john\/john20.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">see and feel Christ\u2019s nail wounds to believe in the Resurrection.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I realize Thomas must have been one of the most loyal of Christ\u2019s disciples. So anguished was he over the loss of his leader, he needed a concrete example of that \u201cgood news\u201d in order to believe that God, in His infinite mercy, had resurrected his friend and thus given all of humanity the possibility of eternal life. He needed to believe in transcendent goodness. So do I. Perhaps Thomas, like me, was feeling weary of a world that sometimes seems beyond miracle<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">Who was Thomas? We know he was a Jew, perhaps a builder or fisherman, who became a brave and loyal follower of Christ, both during Our Savior\u2019s earthly life and after.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>When Jesus announced that he was heading to Judea to visit his sick friend, Lazarus, Thomas admonished his fellow disciples to join Jesus on the dangerous journey. The other disciples were fearful of the risk for both Jesus and themselves. But Thomas prevailed:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/nab\/bible\/john\/john11.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"> \u201cLet us also go that we may die with him.\u201d<\/a> Ultimately, \u00a0the journey of Jesus to Judea and his raising Lazarus from the dead precipitated the Sanhedrin\u2019s decision to crucify Him.<\/p>\n<p>Thomas demonstrates his intense devotion once again at the Last Supper. Jesus tells his disciples he is leaving them soon for his Father\u2019s house. Thomas raises an objection:\u00a0\u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/nab\/bible\/john\/john14.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Master, we do not know where you are going; how can we know the way?\u201d<\/a>\u00a0Jesus\u2019 response gives us a perfect encapsulation of Christian faith:\u00a0\u201cI am the way and the truth\u00a0and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you know me, then you will also know my Father.\u00a0From now on you do know him and have seen him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S8OBi34ZHeI\/AAAAAAAAAGU\/QIFk5-DFbN0\/s1600\/Keralawedding.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/__dQCWErAY9c\/S8OBi34ZHeI\/AAAAAAAAAGU\/QIFk5-DFbN0\/s200\/Keralawedding.jpg\" width=\"136\"><\/a>After Christ\u2019s death and resurrection, tradition tells us that Thomas spent the rest of his life preaching the good news of salvation. He traveled far from home, farther perhaps than any other apostle, on this mission. He set up seven churches in southern India, beginning in A.D. 52. Legend says he carved a cross with his fingernails, a cross that bled for a century. St. Thomas was speared to death 20 years later in Mylapore.<\/p>\n<p>To this day in southwestern India, Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox believers call themselves Saint Thomas Christians, tracing their faith to Thomas\u2019 first century missions. What a stunning legacy. In 1986, Pope John Paul II visited the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.santhomebasilica.com\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">San Thome Basilica, <\/a>the site of Thomas\u2019s tomb near<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: inherit\">\u00a0the mountain and cave where he lived a spartan life as a preacher.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Nearly 2,000 years after the apostle\u2019s death and more than 8,000 miles away, what can Thomas\u2019s life teach me about the struggle to keep my faith in a secular culture that seems indifferent to whether its children are cultivating sin?<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: 15px\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"line-height: normal\"><i>O Glorious Saint Thomas, your grief for Jesus was such that it would not let you believe he had risen unless you actually saw him and touched his wounds. But your love for Jesus was equally great and it led you to give up your life for him. Pray for us that we may grieve for our sins which were the cause of Christ\u2019s sufferings. Help us to spend ourselves in His service and so earn the title of \u201cblessed,\u201d which Jesus applied to those who would believe in Him without seeing him. Amen.<\/i><\/span> <\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/6738513599344023043-6883911252119920979?l=yimcatholic.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today my heart is heavy. I was daunted to discover over the weekend what happens when parents are too busy, too distracted, too \u201csuccessful\u201d to bother rearing their children. 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