{"id":1562,"date":"2009-12-27T07:14:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-27T07:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2009\/12\/because-of-the-feast-day-of-the-holy-family\/"},"modified":"2017-01-24T19:14:34","modified_gmt":"2017-01-25T00:14:34","slug":"because-of-the-feast-day-of-the-holy-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2009\/12\/because-of-the-feast-day-of-the-holy-family.html","title":{"rendered":"Because of the Feast Day of the Holy Family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>
\"\"<\/a>For the past ten days, I have been on vacation visiting friends and family in Southern California\u2014immersed in domestic life in a manner more up close and personal than usual. Sometimes I am at a loss to understand what my children are doing and where they are coming from. But I don\u2019t leave them wondering where my wife and I are coming from.<\/div>\n
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That is why I am glad this is the Feast Day of the Holy Family. I could use some uplifting words on the vocation of parenting right about now, and I\u2019m sure my wife could too! And I look forward to my children hearing these words as well.<\/div>\n
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Following our successful visit to the Mission of San Juan Capistrano<\/a> and playing in the waves and watching the sun set at Doheney<\/span> State Beach, times got a bit rocky with my children. As I wrote here<\/a>, my kids (14 in a few days, 10, and 8) are \u201cin the know\u201d regarding Santa Claus. As Christmas Day rapidly approached, there were a number of less than kind remarks regarding the paucity of gifts sitting under the tree at grandma & grandpa\u2019s house.<\/div>\n
Forget about the logistics of carting presents from Tennessee to Southern California, or back for that matter. My wife and I gave plenty of advance notice that the cost of this trip would be steep in a tough economy, but that mattered little to the 13-and-under crowd. Sure, buying gifts for others upon arrival would be good, but \u201cWhat about us\u201d is what my children were saying between the lines.<\/div>\n
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Which makes the Holy Family story that much more needed for me and my family this year. The antiphon to the Invitatory<\/span> Psalm intones,\u00a0<\/em>Let us worship Christ, the Son of God, who made himself obedient to Mary and to Joseph.<\/em>Consider the antiphon<\/span> while also considering that Jesus is God. . . . He [God] obeyed<\/em> the two human beings entrusted with his care for close to thirty years before he \u201cleft the nest.\u201d That is the message that our children need to hear today\u2014not just from me and my wife, but from the Church. Madison Avenue and network television aren\u2019t sending this message, and I\u2019m pretty sure that the government botches the message too.\n<\/div>\n
The next line from the LOTH<\/span> that struck me is Luke 2:41, which reads,<\/div>\n
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Each year the parents of Jesus went to Jerusalem to celebrate the Passover.<\/em>This indicates that the Holy Family were practicing their faith regularly, not sporadically. The lives of the Holy Family revolved around worshiping God, and that is the model for us to emulate too: Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness . .<\/em>.Flash back to last evening when I informed my eldest son that I would be waking him up early in the morning so that we could go to Mass (0700) before heading off to day 1 of a four-day baseball camp (0900 = show time) Merry Christmas, kiddo! Was his reaction angelic beatitude? More like Sturm<\/span> und<\/span> Drang<\/span>. <\/em>It was definitely an example of amour-propre<\/span><\/a> in action.\n

But despite the sound and the fury of my eldest, I find comfort in the fact that Mary and Joseph lived their faith in a manner that is the very model of this verse from Deuteronomy 6:5,<\/em><\/p>\n

Therefore, you shall love the LORD, your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your strength.<\/em><\/p>\n

This commandment (note the word shall<\/em> and not may<\/em> in the verse) gives me the strength to ignore the whining, grumbling, and complaining of my children while staying focused on Commander\u2019s Intent (see verse above). The Church understands this commandment because it makes sure there are ample opportunities for the rank and file like me to keep the Sabbath Holy\u2014masses beginning on Saturday evenings and running through Sunday. Sounds like Semper<\/span> Fidelis<\/span><\/em> in action.<\/p>\n

I find comfort in knowing that,<\/em><\/p>\n

The boy grew in wisdom and in stature and the grace of God was with him.<\/em><\/p>\n

That is my prayer for my children, yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Though Christian churches of every flavor celebrate the importance of parenting, this is another example of an idea coming full circle, with completeness and amazing grace, within the Catholic Church when it marks a Feast Day celebrating the importance of family and the vocations of both parents and<\/em> children.<\/p>\n

The Short Reading from Deuteronomy 5:16 from today\u2019s LOTH<\/span> is right on the mark again:<\/p>\n

Honor you father and mother, as the Lord God has commanded you, so that you may have long life and may prosper in the land that the Lord your God gives to you.<\/em><\/p>\n

Amen, and thanks be to God!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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