{"id":1665,"date":"2009-11-02T20:53:00","date_gmt":"2009-11-02T20:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2009\/11\/thanks-to-joan-again\/"},"modified":"2017-01-24T19:18:28","modified_gmt":"2017-01-25T00:18:28","slug":"thanks-to-joan-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2009\/11\/thanks-to-joan-again.html","title":{"rendered":"Thanks to Joan, Again"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Joans played an important role in my becoming a Catholic. The biography of <a href=\"http:\/\/yimcatholic.blogspot.com\/2009\/09\/because-joan-of-arc-was-catholic.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Joan of Arc<\/a> by Vita Sackville West opened my eyes in the 1970s. Next came <a href=\"http:\/\/yimcatholic.blogspot.com\/2009\/09\/because-of-joan-of-arcadia.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Joan of Arcadia<\/a>, the teen who talked to God in prime time from 2003 to 2005. But just as important was Joan of Beverly, a seventy-something mother of seven who was my sponsor in RCIA. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-L-lU1dfI\/AAAAAAAAAco\/aPWBWof606I\/s1600-h\/JoanOfArc.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-L-lU1dfI\/AAAAAAAAAco\/aPWBWof606I\/s200\/JoanOfArc.jpg\"><\/a>I entered RCIA in the fall of 2007 and found, along with about eight students, another eight or so \u201cteam members\u201d volunteering to help us learn about the faith. Joan was one of these, and in a matter of weeks I gravitated toward her enthusiasm, and I think she gravitated toward mine. For many months, until sometime in early 2009, we sat on opposite ends of the same pew at daily mass, and our friendship grew. But then Joan was diagnosed with cancer, and she disappeared from the daily scene for surgery, chemo, radiation\u2014the whole nine yards.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not proud that I let her drop off my radar for a while, but about three months ago I decided enough was enough and gave her a call. Since then I have visited her usually one afternoon a week, for ninety minutes or so. We shoot the breeze, catch up on our respective families, and talk about our faith. We are roughly twenty years apart in age, but Joan is like a sister to me, a wise older sister.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-K_SP9S2I\/AAAAAAAAAcQ\/oT8xOCsUhA4\/s1600-h\/IMG_0141.JPG\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-K_SP9S2I\/AAAAAAAAAcQ\/oT8xOCsUhA4\/s320\/IMG_0141.JPG\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Sunday evening, I drove Joan to a dinner concert by Boston-area singer Jaymie Stuart Wolfe entitled \u201cCloud of Witnesses.\u201d It was something like the sixteenth annual concert by Wolfe given in the barn at Brooksby Farm in Peabody. About a hundred people were there for the home-cooked meal, followed by concert and mass. Included in the throng were Jaymie\u2019s husband and their eight children, three of whom performed Irish step dancing to one of Wolfe\u2019s songs. I was frankly spellbound, making the hazy iPhone photo above a perfect image of the evening.<\/p>\n<p>Which is a little hard for me to fathom. As little as three years ago, before I began taking Catholicism seriously, I would have been very skeptical about a faith-filled event like this. Sunday evening I was swept away.<\/p>\n<p>The concept of the concert was simple. For All Saints Day, Wolfe took as her text the Gospel for the day, the Beatitudes, and selected a saint or two for each of the eight verses. She talked about each saint, then sang a related song. Think about it for a second: Which saints would you say best represent (1) poverty of spirit, (2) mourning, (3) meekness and humbleness of heart, (4) hungering and thirsting after righteousness, (5) mercifulness, (6) purity of heart, (7) peacemaking, and (8) being persecuted for righteousness\u2019s sake?<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re thinking up your own answers, take a look at <a href=\"http:\/\/yimcatholic.blogspot.com\/2009\/08\/communing-with-saints.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">my first post, from back in August<\/a>, in which I wrote about how important the saints were in my own conversion.\u00a0 <\/p>\n<p>Now that you\u2019re back, here are my notes from Jaymie\u2019s concert. They are fragmentary, but mostly self-explanatory and, at least for me, they contain several beautiful nuggets of wisdom.<\/p>\n<p><i>Poor in spirit\u2014Francis of Assisi. The only thing we can really spend is our lives. Poverty of spirit is to know you need God. [Chorus from song] \u201cBetter a fool in the house of the living God than a king over all the earth.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Mourn\u2014Augustine and especially Monica, who grieved over a son who was lost. Prayer matters. Prayer changes us. Prayer draws us and others to God. [Song title] \u201cBecome What You See.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-LX27cLPI\/AAAAAAAAAcY\/MI7LXpXZeWM\/s1600-h\/francisdesales\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-LX27cLPI\/AAAAAAAAAcY\/MI7LXpXZeWM\/s320\/francisdesales\"><\/a><i>Meek and humble of heart\u2014Francis de Sales (left). Died 1622. Archbishop of Geneva who never lived in Geneva! Hot tempered yet gentle. Controlling temper once he said, \u201cWould you have me lose in ten minutes what it has taken me twenty years to gain?\u201d The difference between a reaction and a response is three seconds. Embracing a low and little way. The little virtues open the door to all the rest. \u201cTake the little way instead of striving for things that look glorious.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Hungering and thirsting after righteousness\u2014Teresa of Avila. The woman with manly virtues. Grew up with ten brothers. Public face of her convent for twenty years. After which she thought, I have never yet prayed. \u201cLord, I\u2019m not leaving until you change me!\u201d In your 20s you think you can change others. In your 30s you think you can change yourself. In your 40s you realize you can\u2019t do either.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Merciful\u2014Faustina. Received a vision of Jesus as mercy itself. \u201cJesus, I trust in You.\u201d Trusting my holiness to him. <\/i><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Purity of heart=single-heartedness, a heart set on God\u2014Two examples: Maria Goretti, [one of the] youngest canonized<\/i><i>, and Therese of Lisieux, who didn\u2019t start off so wonderful\u2014a brat with tantrums. Stopped looking in mirror, started looking for God in little things.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Peacemaker\u2014St. Patrick, made peace with God after being sold into slavery. Escaped then used his freedom to return to the people who had enslaved him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-LqJPRxUI\/AAAAAAAAAcg\/5IYWqLdD-qk\/s1600-h\/EdithStein\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_dmDaLWNETzg\/Su-LqJPRxUI\/AAAAAAAAAcg\/5IYWqLdD-qk\/s200\/EdithStein\"><\/a><i>Persecuted for righteousness\u2019s sake\u2014Edith Stein (left), raised a Jew, then atheist philosopher. Read the biography of Teresa of Avila and said, \u201cThis is truth.\u201d Nazis came to power, she became a Carmelite nun, wore a Jewish star on her habit. Was arrested, sent to Auschwitz. Her last words: \u201cLet us go for our people.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>[Then a seemingly unrelated note at the end] Your spouse is your altar. Lay your life down in your marriage.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>\u00a0<\/i>I returned home to find Katie waiting up for me, with a smile as always. Thanks again, Joan! <i><br><\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/6738513599344023043-2025914652936381825?l=yimcatholic.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Joans played an important role in my becoming a Catholic. The biography of Joan of Arc by Vita Sackville West opened my eyes in the 1970s. Next came Joan of Arcadia, the teen who talked to God in prime time from 2003 to 2005. 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