The fact is, the media is very good at using scare tactics. If they didn't use shocking tactics they would not stand out to catch our attention. The issue with these tactics is that it colors how we see people. This coloring dehumanizes our neighbors and dulls our view of what is acceptable and kind. Something that is not really that bad is made to seem like it is unbearably horrible, and we are encouraged to form a negative perception of the issue or person.
The reason people don't get out there and live life is because they are scared of the consequences. Years ago I was afraid to lead public ritual because I overheard what was said about the priestess. It was horrible and demeaning. Therefore, I began living in ways that might avoid encounters subject to unnecessary ridicule. No one needs the obvious pointed out to them. It was not until I got out and led my first public ritual did I realize it wasn't about me being inadequate.
I discovered that I am a good leader despite my weight and size. My abilities and knowledge have nothing to do with my size and weight. I know I am experienced and competent. In the face of potential ridicule and false judgments, I found that my inner power is my own. My inner power does not come from the people standing in the circle with me. It does not come from my dress size or weight. My inner power comes from how I see myself. My inner power comes from the knowledge I have and the grace I give myself.
Over the years I have learned to love who I am, eat healthfully, and exercise daily. I have learned that these things make me healthy and confident. When I feel healthy and confident my Magick and spirituality are a flame to behold.
It is time to live each day as though it were your last. Get up and move. Get up and dance. Get up and enjoy the sunshine. Go outside and lay in the shade of a beautiful tree. Bring a picnic and enjoy the day, everyday!
My inspiration for this article came from Joy Nash. She is openly 224 pounds and a size 18! She is speaking out for all of us who struggle with the "You must be thin" stigma we encounter everyday. Her videos are available on www.YouTube.com and they are very entertaining.
If you take nothing away from this article, please remember this: Many obese and overweight people are very active and very healthy. Many obese people are not firmly planted on the couch stuffing their faces with junk. They are beautiful and deserving of respect and dignity.
One should never judge someone's abilities by the size of their clothing. Spirituality and Magick don't come in specific pant or dress sizes; they are all sizes to fit all.
Finally, it is not your weight that prevents you from doing what you want and enjoying life, it is your attitude.
This article was originally printed at Witchvox.com and is reprinted with permission.
Leandra Witchwood has served her local community as a Minister of Earth-Base Spirituality, an Animal Card Reader, Spiritual Counselor, Leader, and Teacher. She enjoys facilitating Labyrinth walks and educational seminars on various spiritual topics. She also teaches classes on mediation, Witchcraft, Wicca, and various Magickal techniques. Leandra blogs at leandradraconiswitchwood.blogspot.com.
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