Interfaith Dialogue as a Struggle for Identity
By Seth Rogers
With all the fuss that is made over words like "diversity," "outreach," and "ecumenism," it is sometimes easy to forget that, well... we don't really have to talk to each other. In fact, most of us don't talk to each other -- at least about the things that matter most to us. Conversations around the water cooler at work tend to stick to a safer neutral ground of sports, TV shows, trivial gossip, and maybe (if we're feeling adventurous) politics. But religion -- which arguably matters far more than any of these topics -- is studiously avoided. When it comes to God, it seems most of us would rather not talk about it.
I suppose this makes me -- someone who deliberately seeks out opportunities for interfaith dialogue and debate -- a bit of freak. As a lifelong practicing member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (commonly referred to as "LDS" or "Mormons"), I have spent the last three years in constant online interaction with those of other faiths (or even no faith) whenever Mormonism is a topic. These interactions have ranged from polite inquiry to impassioned argument, and have covered a wide range of faiths and people. I probably see more religious conflict in one week of my life than most of my fellow LDS care to receive in half a year of their lives. I get a lot of raised eyebrows when my fellow Mormons learn what I've been up to. "Why go looking for trouble?" they seem to be silently asking. Indeed, I find myself also asking why I submit myself constantly to a form of interaction that can be so extremely punishing on one's own faith and beliefs.
I certainly don't think I learned it at Church. To grow up Mormon in Utah is to gain an almost instinctive dislike of conflict. After all, "contention is of the devil." The prevailing view in my childhood communities seemed to be that arguments were nothing more than roadblocks for getting things done. If I grew up an argumentative person, I can't really blame it on my religious culture.