I have several notebooks of quotes and sayings that I’ve collected over the past 15 years or so, some of which I’m now re-reading for the first time since I wrote them down.
There is one quote I stumbled upon that puzzled me, as I wasn’t sure how to take it. Perhaps it is no surprise that it comes from a figure often seen as polarizing, the former pro football coach Bill Parcells. Commenting on his refusal to look past the next game, Parcells said:
“I don’t even buy green bananas. I buy them yellow because I know I’m going to use them right away. I don’t look down the road with green bananas.”
But then, I realized this was a false choice. Because there was another option on the table, the choice to buy both green and yellow bananas, preparing for today as well as the days to come.
I think it is often this way in life. We think there are only two solutions to a situation. When in reality, there is a third way, a middle path, that encompasses both possible solutions.