In real life, Yehia el-Fakhrani is quite an admirable picture of the modern man, a middle-aged "metrosexual", which makes his pandering to this warped view all the more confounding. He is gentle, caring, considerate and tolerant, while the women in his life are intelligent and successful. His wife, for instance, wrote a critically acclaimed TV drama chronicling the reign of King Farouq.
As long as conservative circles continue successfully to equate female emancipation with male emaciation, the quest for gender equality will stall. Although Arab cinema and literature have carried plenty of examples of modern, progressive men, particularly in the 1960s and 1970s, the problem is that these tend to be quite westernised, and hence alien to your average Arab man on the street.
What we need are mainstream, "average Mo" role models who demonstrate that believing in gender equality squares with being a man, and that empowering women also empowers men and society as a whole.
Khaled Diab is a Brussels-based journalist and writer.
Reprinted here with Permission of Altmuslimah.com