A lot of discussion about punishment centers around legal punishments for crimes against the law and punishments for children. These are great topics worthy of exploration in the future. But for this post, I want you to reflect on a lesser discussed question about punishment. Rather than talk about legal violations or how to discipline children, please answer the following question(s) about how to deal with the moral failure of those adults we interact with personally and professionally:
How and when (if ever) should we take it upon ourselves to punish someone in our lives for a moral failure? How does this vary depending on various possible relationships we might have to the the morally guilty party? Consider, for example, how or whether we might punish our friends, our partners, our parents, our colleagues, strangers we encounter, etc. What sorts of values and principles should guide us when we presume to take it upon ourselves to be moral enforcers?
Previous round ups of bloggers replies about how to be forward thinking include Libby Anne’s collection of posts on civic responsibility and answers to a question I posed about how we can mourn collectively in a pluralistic waythat respects various mourners’ different beliefs and needs.