You Were Never Really One of Us

The mind is an amazing thing.  With it, we are capable of solving such complex puzzles and real-world problems!  At the same time, we are capable of shutting out large chunks of data, selecting only those streams of information which fall in line with what we expected to find in the first place.  We call this “confirmation bias” and it can totally blind you to any information which contradicts your prior beliefs.  If used in a social situation, it can… Read more

Responses to My Interview

The two videos I posted in May have received over 85,000 views and now I find I have more than 1,000 subscribers on YouTube.  I wasn’t expecting that, nor was I expecting so many to ask for more videos.  Evidently the things I said struck a cord with quite a few people.  With that in mind, I’m going to try my hand at posting videos along with my writing.  Now if only I can get a hold of a better… Read more

Why Some of Us Stay Closeted

Recently someone suggested to a group of mostly closeted atheists in the Deep South that maybe they shouldn’t be closeted at all.  Maybe they should “come out” because so many Americans are already too judgmental towards non-believers and the only way to counter that is for more of us to openly identify ourselves. That may very well be the case, and I do hope more of us can make that transition with a minimal amount of loss in our personal… Read more

Changing the Subject

Have you ever considered why Batman has to wear protective armor but Superman doesn’t?  The reason is obvious, of course:  Bruce Wayne is a fragile human being while Kal-El is impervious and virtually indestructible.  One requires special protection while the other does not.  Furthermore, you can tell which areas are the most important (and the most vulnerable) by noting where the strongest armor is situated (e.g. the cranium). The same protection principle applies in movies and video games.  You can… Read more

God Does Exist

Last summer I spent entirely too much time in discussion groups arguing with people about whether or not gods exist. I say “gods” because there were several being debated. Of course, where I live, everyone safely assumes that only one particular deity is even on the table for discussion. But the internet can open you up to a much wider world. For example, it was through participation in one of these groups that I learned just how silly and egocentric… Read more

What Has Atheism Done For Me?

A friend once asked me whether or not my life is better now that I no longer believe in invisible spirits or the supernatural. My answer is that it’s a mixed bag. On the negative side, I must say that the reactions of people who liked me better when I still had faith have been at times very strong. While this is no place to go into details, there have been some harsh social consequences for my loss of faith…. Read more

Have You Had a Wizard of Oz Moment?

A friend recently expressed surprise that I would leave the Christian faith if my experience of it was largely positive.  Not only was I pretty devoted as a follower of that tradition, but I even had a few years of experience in various kinds of ministry, most of which were positive as well.  So why on earth would I leave it?  Ironically, it was that very devotion to my faith which finally led me out of it entirely. I left… Read more

What Atheists Wish Christians Knew About Them (Expanded)

Several have asked me to put my “What Atheists Wish Christians Knew About Them” into writing so they could share it with those who don’t feel like watching the video. Since my talk at the church was long enough already, I didn’t get the chance to go into much detail or elaborate on any of the points I gave. Also, given the face-to-face nature of the interview, I felt I should limit my explanations of each of the points in… Read more

Why I Find the Notion of Hell Absurd

In a previous post entitled “Why I Am an Anti-Fundamentalist,” I mentioned that I cannot condone any form of theism which preaches the concept of Hell. That post was long enough already, so I moved my elaboration of that point to here. To someone like me, the notion of Hell is absurd for at least three reasons: a.)  There’s a lot of fuzzy ambiguous thinking about how this concept would even work. Presumably the torture of this “place” is supposed to… Read more

Why I Am an Anti-Fundamentalist (and not an Anti-Theist) Part 2

I am not a person who tends to be against things.  I often say that I am a pathologically conciliatory person. Maybe it’s because I’m a middle child. Maybe it’s because I grew up sandwiched between two girls, or because I’ve fathered four of my own.  Whatever the reason, I don’t like to fight.  But there comes a time when you realize something needs to be fought.  You see the damage it causes not only yourself but also those around you, and… Read more

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