Pulling the Victoria’s Secret Dance

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Fundamentalist and conservative evangelical Christianity is weird. Women are taught to dress modestly in public, to stay away from pornography or premarital sex, etc. Prostitutes and strippers are derided, along with everyone who dresses "like a whore" (i.e. less modestly than they're supposed to). But in private, within marriage? Women are expected to perform. They have to somehow go from reserved modesty to being, well, a man's personal supermodel.Take this blog comment, for instance: I … [Read more...]

Guest Post: A Courtship Story, Part 6: The Countdown

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A Guest Post by MelissaOriginally posted on Permission to LiveNote: I’m reposting Melissa’s series, originally written in February 2011, with her permission. Why now? Put simply, because it was one of the first things that came to my mind when I heard about Jessa Duggar courting. This is something I wish she could read. This is for Jessa. For all the posts in this series, click here.  Hunk and I and our parents set the wedding date that same night. He was going to graduate school … [Read more...]

Can We Not Tell Gay Christians What To Do Please?

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The Friendly Atheist recently posted an article written by guest blogger Camille. The title was "Gay Christians Shouldn't Just Leave the Church; They Should Leave the Faith." Camille starts by discussing a fictional interview between Pastor Stanton Jones and a gay man named Todd, in which Stanton tells Todd that he should admit his sexual struggles to his evangelical church and ask them to support him in his quest to remain chaste. Camille then turns to a response by fellow Patheos blogger Tony … [Read more...]

CTNAHM: If Your Wife’s Not Fulfilled, Who Cares?

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A Guest Post by AlethaOriginally posted on Yllom MormonCreated To Need A Help Meet, pp. 66---69Last post, Michael started his analysis the three types of men.  According to the Pearl's, God created 3 types of guys to reflect different aspects of his (trinitarian) personality.  Men are either Command men (like God the Father), Steady Men (like Jesus Christ), or Visionary Men (Like the Prophet Holy Spirit). ObservationAll of creation comes in threes.  There are three dimensions an … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: “Sexual Perversions”

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Created To Be His Help Meet, p. 174This brief section---only one page---is titled "Exceptions: Sexual Perversions." This is the very end of Debi's chapter on loving your husband (which is, of course, all about sex), and it's what you've all been waiting for. Let's take a look. Anal sex is a homosexual act, and no normal man or woman desires this. The use of pornography has increased this abomination. It is a filthy practice and medically dangerous. Oh, well, that didn't take long.For … [Read more...]

An Open Letter to Debi Pearl

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Dear Debi,I was very excited when I read your article of this past August, titled "The Roland Study." In that article, you began with this opening paragraph: My grandson Roland, who just turned one, has taught me more about the development of babies and toddlers than I learned my first sixty-plus years of life. It is not that he is such a fine teacher; it’s just that, now that I’m a grandmother, not responsible for meeting the daily needs of my children, I can seriously focus on what makes h … [Read more...]

Michael and Debi Pearl’s Life Story on Video

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I just found a video of Michael and Debi telling their life story earlier this fall. I haven't watched the whole thing yet, and don't have time to parse through it at the moment. If anyone here wants to post in the comments what is said, or important insights, please do. For some reason, I can't embed it (something about privacy settings), so you'll have to click through to Vimeo to view it.Michael & Debi Pearl: Our Life StoryI do want to make a caveat. No mocking, please. I'm not … [Read more...]


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