What’s More Terrifying than Left Behind?

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I remember the movie very clearly. We watched it some church event or other, which I can't remember. But the movie---the movie I remember.It began when an angel appeared to a woman and told her the date and time she was going to die. The woman was a worldly woman who did not know Jesus, and the angel's announcement of her time of death was meant to bring her to her knees and lead her to salvation. It didn't. Instead of accepting the inevitable and coming to Jesus, the woman determined to do … [Read more...]

CTNAHM: Women Are Cursed—Twice!


By AlethaOriginally posted on Yllom MormonCreated To Need A Help Meet, pp. 175---177Hello, all. Thank you for your patience and support while I sorted out my personal life.To recap the last few sections, Michael is talking about women obeying men. He shies away from the word "obey", and instead uses subjugation, servitude, and under authority. But he means the same thing.Today's section is all about the two-fold curse on women, thanks to Eve. Yes, ladies, you read that right. … [Read more...]

That’s Not Good Enough, Christianity Today—Updated!


In the face of increasingly vocal calls to pull the rapist's article (you can read my prior coverage here), the editors of Christianity Today's Leadership Journal have stood firm and refused to take the post down. Instead, they have added an editorial note to the beginning of the article. It's not enough---not nearly enough---and that the editors think it is shows just how deep the problem is. Editorial Note: Since publishing the following piece on Monday, there has been a tremendous backlash f … [Read more...]

Evangelical Narratives, Sexual Predators, and Safe Places


I have written time and again about the evangelical narratives used to excuse rape and child molestations, especially when committed by pastors. I came upon quite a few of these when reading through the comments on the recent article by a convicted rapist and child molester that was published by Christianity Today's Leadership Journal. (If you haven't read about the article yet, please do.) I want to take a moment to look at a few of the excuses I am seeing made, and to reflect on what these … [Read more...]

Oh Mr. Gothard!


As you probably noticed, my computer glitched and posted my weekly Friday post on Wednesday. Oops! If you haven't read that post, CTBHHM: The Question of Birth Control, feel free to do so now. For today, I'm going to turn to some of Bill Gothard's thoughts on procreation, drawing from his Advanced Seminar Textbook. Trust me, it's ever bit as good as Debi! What would we have lost if Jesse had had a smaller family? If Jesse had had one less child, David would not have been born. Jesse had eight s … [Read more...]

Christianity Today Publishes a Rapists’ Story


Remember when the Good Man Project posted an article by an unrepentant rapist, supposedly as an example of things to avoid? Well, Christianity Today recently posted an article by a youth pastor who had sex with one of his students and is supposedly repentant---but doesn't really sound that way. In fact, it squicks me out exactly the same way the Good Men Project's posting of a rapist's story does. Maybe worse actually, because this guy is supposedly repentant. Except not.In the article, the … [Read more...]

Talking to Kids about Social Services, part II


I wrote yesterday about the fear of social services I received from my parents and from the wider homeschooling community. Once I grew up I realized that this fear was both irrational and counterproductive. Social services was not the enemy, and social workers do important work protecting children from abuse and neglect. Sure, social services isn't perfect, and they sometimes make mistakes. But what good does teaching children to be afraid of social services do? Absolutely none at all. When I … [Read more...]