A Fundamental Misunderstanding of Ex-Fundamentalists

Do we need to tell ex-fundamentalists that they have to spend more time with fundamentalists or they’re just “re-formed” fundamentalists? I’m sorry, but no. We don’t. We also don’t need to tell them that the pain or anger they may feel is illegitimate, or that if they don’t see fundamentalist positions as as valid or as just as theirs they’re still fundamentalists. And if not being a relativist makes me a fundamentalist, so be it. Read more

One Million Moms Declares War on Children of Gay Parents

This “war” rhetoric may appear bombastic, but the rights of children of gay parents are an emerging frontier in the battle over gay rights nonetheless. No longer content to take aim at gay and lesbian couples, conservatives have put their children in the crosshairs. Read more

Starbucks’ Red Cup and the Evangelicals Who Cried Wolf

Starbucks’ holiday marketing is about as Christmas-centric as you can get, and even that is not enough for evangelicals. Starbucks fails to put a Christmas tree or ornaments on their holiday cup this year, and conservatives call it a “war on Christmas” and “emblematic of the Christian culture cleansing of the West.” Read more

Bill Gothard Defenders Center Obedience

In addition to not understanding the role obedience can play in priming victims for abuse or the predatory behavior of abusers in careful selecting their victims while retaining an upstanding profile around others, the Discovering Grace team also has no understanding of what physical boundaries are considered appropriate for counseling and therapy situations. That they can defend Gothard while promoting a variety of narratives that create conditions that facilitate abuse is appalling. Read more

Lesbian Duplex 41: An Open Thread

It’s time for another chatter thread! Read more

In Defense of Letting Kids Talk Back

Don’t get me wrong, having your child obey you without question is convenient. It makes parenting a lot easier! This is what people mean when they say corporal punishment “works.” But does it really? As parents, should we prioritize convenience over raising independent adult capable of navigating the world and making informed decisions? I think the answer is obvious. Read more

Anonymous Tip: Papers, Please!

Let’s see, where did we leave off? Oh yes, it’s the Tuesday hearing and it’s dashing lawyer Peter’s turn to question Dr. McGuire, the psychologist the CPS office hired to fake his report and say that Gwen is an unfit mother. Read more

Why I Broke Up with Lenore Skenazy and Free Range Kids

I came upon the concept of free range parenting several years ago when I came upon Free Range Kids, a website run by author Lenore Skenazy (who authored a book with the same title). I was initially extremely attracted to the idea. The byline for both the website and the book is “How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children (Without Going Nuts with Worry)” and Skenazy seemed to focus on promoting children’s rights. She argued that children are capable of much more than we give them credit for, and encouraged parents to take a step back and give their children room to prove themselves without micromanaging or over-babying. I liked what I saw! But over the years, I have begun to have some concerns. Read more

No, Modesty Does Not “Empower” Women

I recently came upon an article via Ladies Against Feminism titled 4 Reasons Modesty Empowers Women (And Porn Does Not). So let’s talk about this, shall we? Let’s start with the title. The title contrasts “modesty” and “porn,” seemingly unaware that the two are not the only options, or that there is a huge difference between porn on the one hand, and an ordinary person wearing “revealing” clothing she just happens to like on the other. Read more

It’s Not Just a Guy Thing—Oh Wait, Yes It Is

I expected to find an acknowledgement of this reality in Challeis’ blog post, coupled of course with a strong dose of “this is wrong, do not do it,” but no. Instead we get “women totally judge other women and that’s totes the same as men lusting after women.” How about no. Read more

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