Sexual Exploration and Teaching Children Boundaries

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Several months ago, I let the bathroom briefly to grab a towel while the children were bathing. Sally is five and Bobby two, but they actually rarely bathe together because they're both so bath-resistant we usually end up running them through the shower with us instead. Standing in the hall grabbing a towel from the linen closet I heard something along the lines of "Can I see it?" When I reentered the bathroom a moment later I realized that Sally was looking at and touching Bobby's penis. Sally l … [Read more...]

“Normal Childhood Sexual Exploration”?

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When I was around seven, we often got together with a family with a little boy my own age. His parents went to my parents' church, and I think they were in the same Bible study. At some point he began nagging me, wanting me to pull down my underwear and let him see my bare bottom. I didn't want to do that, and I told him as much, but he wouldn't let up. Finally, I gave in. When no one was around, I laid down on the floor face down and pulled my underwear down so he could see my bare bottom. Afte … [Read more...]

Election Day Open Thread

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Today is the midterm election in the United States. This year's election lacks the pizzaz of a presidential campaign, but that doesn't mean it is unimportant! So get out there and vote, everyone, and feel free to weigh in here on which races and issues you see as especially important. And feel free to pop some popcorn and join discussion as the results come in tonight! … [Read more...]

Science, Privilege, and Power

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Organized atheism has a love affair with science. It's not just that science offers explanations for things that have often been explained supernaturally, it also provides many atheists with a sense of awe. But it's something more than that, too. For some, science seems to replace religion. I've had atheists tell me, for example, that science will show us the way forward, let us know how to live, and give us solutions to the world's problems---never mind that, as I have pointed out, science does … [Read more...]

The Courtship Mask

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I recently posted excerpts from an article written by Shoshanna Pearl, which began like this: When I got married, I expected my husband to be that alpha male that my dad was; but he was not. We would be driving down the road and he would say, “Where do you want to eat?” I would smile and say, “Wherever you want to eat,” expecting him to quickly turn in to this or that place without hesitation. Instead, he would smile and say, “I don’t care. I want to take you where you want to go. Where would yo … [Read more...]

Karen Campbell: Cover for Your Abusive Parent

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Karen Campbell of That Mom says that "what homeschooling moms really want" is respect. But after talking about being content with your situation, listening to God's desires for you, and respecting others' life paths as well, she turns to children respecting abusive parents. Often it is difficult to show respect to others, especially to our own parents or other family members. Many people were raised in homes where physical, sexual, verbal, emotional, or spiritual abuse was a daily occurrence. … [Read more...]

Matt Walsh Doesn’t Get Historical Marriage Rate Trends

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Matt Walsh recently published an article urging early marriage.I was 24 when we met and got engaged and 25 when we tied the knot. That would make us pretty run of the mill by our grandparents’ standards, but not anymore. These days we’re practically a Ripley’s Believe It Or Not exhibit. People are downright befuddled to come across a 20-something with a wedding ring, much less a couple of carseats in the back of the sedan. There’s a good reason for their shocked amazement. Indeed, y … [Read more...]


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