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News: Ben Seewald Moves Onto The Duggar Compound

According to both People magazine and CDN the four hour courting commute between Hot Springs, Arkansas and Tontitown, Arkansas is too much for Jessa's fiance Ben Seewald. So he's leaving his business, his college and his parents to move in with the Duggars.Interesting development and one that seems more likely to be geared toward providing new content for the television show. Ben Seewald is moving to the Duggar homestead, where his courtship with Jessa can be captured for the TLC show, 19 Kids and Counting. Isn't Ben the one that had his own established business in Hot Springs?  Guess this was more important than continuing on in his own business. Does this mean that Ben will e … [Read More...]

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CTBHHM: Stay at Home or Your Child Will be Molested

by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love, Joy FeminismCreated To Be His Help Meet, pp. 208—209Debi is really good at scaring women into doing just as she says. Have you noticed that? If you don’t submit to your husband and have sex with him any time he asks . . . you will end up divorced and living in a dumpy duplex. And so on. Well, this week we begin the chapter titled “Keepers at Home.” And according to Debi, if you are a mother and don’t stay home with your children as commanded by God, well, there will be consequences. Scary consequences.According to the word of God, I, one of the aged women, an commanded to teach the young women to be keepers at home. This is the sixth … [Read More...]

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News: Ending Rape Culture Because Bible?

by Gina Miller at BarbWire - Godlessness, Safety Nail Polish and 'Rape Culture'We've talked here at NLQ quite a bit about Purity Culture and Rape Culture and how modesty is not the answer to fixing the problem of rape in this country. The message that the religious right is pushing to address these problems is still the same old, same old that doesn't work. … [Read More...]

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The Place Where Light Enters

by AJ from her blog I Am Phoenix A friend shared with me the other day a bit of wisdom that hit a thirsty place in my soul. It has soaked into my skin, and I hear it beside me each time I turn my head. So I thought I would share it with you here today."The wound is the place where the Light enters." - RumiThat is all. … [Read More...]

Bette Midler in The Stepford Wives.

Quoting Quiverfull: Fighting For Joy Over Grumpiness?

by Rachel Jankovic at Be Not Weary and at Femina - Joy Can't Die … [Read More...]

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Kevin Swanson, and Letting the Foxes Guard the Henhouse

by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love, Joy, FeminismDo you guys remember last week’s WORLD Magazine article on abuse and neglect in the Christian homeschooling community? The two solutions suggested by WORLD (and by the Home School Legal Defense Association) were these: (1) the homeschooling community should self police, including investigating educational neglect tips through agreements with state child protective services; and (2) homeschool families should be active members of churches, which will step in if there is a problem.Yesterday Christian homeschool leader Kevin Swanson spent his entire radio broadcast responding to the WORLD article, and it wasn’t pretty—but it was … [Read More...]

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In Which I Am the Greatest Threat to Homeschooling

by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love, Joy, FeminismRemember Thomas Umstattd, that homeschool blogger who spoke out against courtship a few weeks ago? Today he put up a post congratulating Michael Farris for speaking out against patriarchy. And, wow. The problems abound.Homeschool Alumni – The New Internal Threat to Homeschooling We are entering a new era as a movement where our biggest threats are no longer external but internal. Homeschoolers Anonymous (HARO) poses a bigger threat to homeschooling than any teacher’s union. These are homeschool alumni who understand homeschooling from the inside out and who often point out legitimate problems. What gives the HARO power is n … [Read More...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Do You Feel Guilty About Not Smiling?

by Nancy Campbell cross posted from Above Rubies - Everytime (sic) You Smile! Did you smile at your husband this morning? Are you smiling at your children today? The more you smile at them, the more you'll have smiling children! QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders or their followers/enforcers and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull honestly and thoughtfully. Comments open below NLQ Recommended Reading … Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movem … [Read More...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Educating Children is Not About Ensuring They Can Earn a Living as Adults?

by Amy Roberts from her blog Raising Arrows - True Education is Not About Making a Living(Editor's Note: We've been discussing who it is out there that is actually taking the disgusting words of Kevin Swanson seriously? This author is. She quotes Swanson in this bit on education.) … [Read More...]

Brienne Maid of Tarth and Jaime Lannister - always squabbling over who holds the sword and stands in front of who.

Quoting Quiverfull: Chivalry is Important?

by Jana, Jill, Jessa and Jinger Duggar from their book "Growing Up Duggar" From page 136 - 137: It warms our hearts when we're around young men, including our brothers, who are courteous and quick to practice the fine old art of gentlemanly chivalry. Some women these days think that allowing men to help them with anything makes them appear weak, and they refuse to take a man's hand to help them down a step or object to a man's offer to help them carry a heavy love. However, a gentleman's courtesy is not about women being weak or strong; it's about men needing to be men. Gentlemanly behavior is cultivated as they learn to serve others and treat ladies as ladies.  We encourage these e … [Read More...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Bless Your Children and They Will Rebel Less (But You’ll Still Have to Spank Them)

by Nancy Campbell from Above Rubies - Swift to Bless … [Read More...]

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Why I Haven’t “Given Up On The Church”

by Living Liminal from her blog Living LiminalThis morning, I read an article entitled Why You Shouldn’t Give up on the Church.The author is the son of a 'famous' christian. I am a 'nobody' in that particular world.He thinks "church is messy by nature." I have found it not messy, but dangerous.He says, "it’s where Jesus’ people are connected." I find I can connect with Jesus's people wherever I meet them.He opines that, "To leave the Church is to hurt yourself and to hurt others." I left because it was the only way to stop the hurt.His judgement: "leaving the Church... is escapism." My experience: leaving the institution was the only way to escape the abuse. … [Read More...]


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