“Defrauding” or How Men Can Keep Women From Stumbling!

May 24, 2013 By Leave a Comment

by Hopewell – crossposted from her blog Hopewell Takes On LIFE!   source Thanks to TLC’s “19 Kids and Counting” America has discovered Bill Gothard’s idea of  “defrauding” or making men “stumble.” How does this happen? If you watch the show you know it’s because someone forgot to call out the code word “Nike” to [...]

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News Links September 5, 2012

September 5, 2012 By Leave a Comment

Sometimes churches need to be reminded that if they campaign for a certain party or candidate they put their tax exempt status at risk – ChicoER – Editorial: Church runs afoul of rules There’s an interesting article by Jenny Rae Armstrong over at Red Letter Christians about Patriarchy, Pop Culture, and Pornograpy Thoughts on handling [...]

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NLQ FAQ Revisited: Are Jim Bob & Michelle Duggar “Quiverfull”?

August 10, 2012 By 10 Comments

by Hopewell Q: Are the Duggars Quiverfull? By their own admission, Jim-Bob and Michelle were so “grieved” after reading the information pamphlet in a birth control pill package that they turned their fertility over to God. (“About Us” para.1 See also, Dallas News).  That decision has been the reason for their incredible family size of [...]

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To Stand Up and Speak: The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blog Network

June 21, 2012 By Leave a Comment

by Melissa Permission to Live My sister was the one who introduced me to No Longer Quivering. She didn’t actually mean to, she told me she was reading a website called Quivering Daughters, and when I googled it I found No Longer Quivering instead. I wanted to make sure that this was a good thing [...]

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Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network

June 5, 2012 By 128 Comments

The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network is a project of Vyckie Garrison and the guest writers at No Longer Quivering. What is Spiritual Abuse? (Coming soon …!) About the Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Join the Network Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Blogging Tips SASBN Articles THE SPIRITUAL ABUSE SURVIVOR BLOGS NETWORK No Longer Quivering [...]

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