Quoting Quiverfull: Don’t Divorce Your Husband For Refusing To Give Up Porn?

by Penny from Meet Penny.com - HELP! My Husband Has a Porn Addiction!Editor's note: I will agree with her that you should not act in haste over any big decisions, like if you should divorce your husband for a so-called 'porn addiction'. But praying that your man will give up his porn habit is sort of like flinging teaspoons of water on a raging multi-acre forest fire. It can help, at least a little, but you're much better off insisting your husband go with you to counseling, or taking positive steps for you that you need in order to help yourself deal with the sense of betrayal or grief you might be feeling. If he refuses counseling, go for yourself. Pray if you want to but take real … [Read more...]

News: Josh Duggar’s Dirty Little Porn Star Secret?

Remember that Facebook profile linked to the same email address Josh Duggar used at both Ashley Madison and OkCupid? Remember that the only 'friends' on his page were either strippers or lingerie models? Guess what, one of them is  a porn star who gives private webcam shows to a select few who can pay the big bucks. … [Read more...]

Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Letting A Guy Know You Are Interested

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 18 … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: No Right to Divorce if Your Husband Cheats?

by Biblical Gender Roles from Biblical Gender Roles.com - Does God Allow Divorce For Adultery?Editor's note: BGR is gearing up to promote polygamy if I'm reading his post on adultery and divorce correctly. No real consequence for any man straying to a woman he's not married to. Great, just great. Now no only do you have to provide sex upon demand in his icky little world, you also have no legal recourse if a man commits infidelity. … [Read more...]

Will Anna Duggar Be Offered As The Next Live Sacrifice To Save The Duggar Family? Scapegoating, Spread Your Legs Theology And The Modern Molech

by Cindy Kunsman cross posted from her blog Under Much Grace(Please take note of embedded links for background information.) I’ve tried for more than 48 hours to write this, but having watched this scenario play out with other followers of Bill Gothard, it brings up so many disturbing emotions for me, I found myself too caught up in them.  As the media begins to report, Anna Duggar will share in the blame for her husband’s sins and divorce will be strongly discouraged if not demonized.  I’ve watched it happen with other people who follow this belief system, over and over again. … [Read more...]

Here Are 5 Misogynistic, Christian ‘Family Values’ Taught to Hypocrite Josh Duggar

by Vyckie Garrison NLQ Founder and published at Raw Story Vyckie Garrison was once a minor celebrity in the Quiverfull Movement, made famous by TV’s Duggar family. As a devout, Bible-believing Christian and the mother of seven homeschooled children, Garrison spent 16 years, with her husband, publishing a newspaper for families on a similar path. Today, via a website called No Longer Quivering, she publishes resources for women leaving the movement. Surprise, surprise: Josh Duggar had a couple paid Ashley Madison accounts during the same years he worked as executive director of FRC Action, the political arm of Family Research Council’s “traditional family values” organization. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Caring What Others Do In Their Bedrooms?

by Vaughn Ohlman from True Love Doesn't Wait - Of Sodomy and MarriageEditor's note: Von is speaking here for the decision by the Supreme Court of the United State's ruling that all forms of civil marriage between two consenting adults of any sex are legal. For years many Christians have denied that they want to control every single minor aspect of others lives, but Mr. Ohlman outs that lie by claiming that they do want to control even what you do in the privacy of your bedroom with your significant other. Where in the Bible does it say to police the sexual antics of others? It doesn't. … [Read more...]

“Lies Women Believe” Review: 45 – 62

by Samantha Field cross posted from her blog Samantha P Field.comThis chapter of Lies Women Believe (lies we believe “About God”) illustrates rather perfectly what I was talking about in my last post– how Christians taught me that my own heart can’t be trusted because it’s hell-bent on deceiving me. Nancy spends a lot of time laying the groundwork for the rest of the book, which is primarily the idea that your life experience cannot be trusted.But, before we get to that, let’s begin with something I agree with her on: … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Is It Ever Appropriate To Hand Out Tracts?

by Trish Ramos of Fish With Trish - The Righteous Aren't Always As Bold As A Lion LOLEditor's note: You remember Trish, don't you? She's the one that said that when you see another woman wearing something you think is immodest you should go up to her and point at the immodest display part and say 'uh oh' before handing them a tract on modesty. She's also a big supporter and friend to the guy we posted yesterday who thinks he's Christianity's answer to Jon Stewart - Todd Friel. Here's my question between his show and her tracts - are there appropriate times and places to hand out tracts? What about at a restaurant when people are just trying to get their meal on? Where is the line between … [Read more...]