Quoting Quiverfull: Part 6 – Don’t Judge Your Husband Ever?

by Michael and Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy magazine – Marriage Good WillEditor's note: Last little bit, I promise. Mr. Pearl tries to say if you love God and love his ways you'll do good and always have good will towards others. Some Biblical sugar mixed in with the toxic medicine. … [Read more...]

Duggar Cult Survivor Wants You to Meet the Powerful Women Who Make Other Women’s Lives a Living Hell

by NLQ's Vyckie Garrison originally published in Raw Story “ …Older women … admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.” Titus 2:3-5 Quiverfull is a growing fundamentalist movement within evangelical Christianity which shuns all forms of birth control and follows the “biblical” marriage model of male headship and female submission. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 6 – Don’t Judge Your Husband Ever?

by Michael and Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy magazine – Marriage Good WillEditor's note: Nice how they manage to work in some fear-mongering towards the end of this piece with saying you must keep your children from developing negative contemptuous attitudes. The Pearls love to make parents doubt their own abilities or point out things to feel guilty about while raising their children. Only one more piece of this word salad with a side of fear dressing after this bit.. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: How to Handle an Abusive Husband?

by No Greater Joy's Debi Pearl as quoted by Vyckie Garrison at Raw Story - Duggar Cult Survivor Wants You to Meet the Powerful Women Who Make Other Women's Lives a Living HellEditor's note: Debi's advice boils down to smile, shut up and place nice always no matter what he is doing to you or your children. Which is exactly the advice that will help create an environment where domestic abuse will flourish. … [Read more...]

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Is It Right To Show Admiration?

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 1 … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 5 – Don’t Judge Your Husband Ever?

by Michael and Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy magazine – Marriage Good WillEditor's note: Well at least Michael says the non-gender 'spouses' when talking about contempt. Why would you marry someone you feel mainly contempt for in the first place? … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Make the Best of all Situations?

by Vyckie Garrison at Raw Story - Duggar Cult Survivor Wants You to Meet the Powerful Women Who Make Other Women's Lives a Living HellEditor's note: Interrupting the nauseating screed by the Pearls on why women should always be cheerful to their menfolks to bring you this -- a recounting of poor Serene Campbell Allison's winter with no plumbing or heating. This is the reality for many women in Quiverfull when the house is filled with more children that can be supported on a Quiverfull male's likely labor-related small income. … [Read more...]

Living Without Inspiration: The Bible and Me

by Samantha Field cross posted from her blog Samantha P Field.comWhen I was attending Pensacola Christian College, one of the guest speakers that came in for the mandatory four-day-a-week chapel service castigated Christians for not respecting the Bible enough. He compared us to Muslims in order to illustrate how we were failing, explaining that Muslims handle the Qur’an with extreme care, propriety, and piousness. Depending on the interpretation, only those who are formally purified can touch the mus-haf (the printed Qur’an in the original Arabic), and it’s commonly taught that it should always be kept in a safe, clean place. The chapel speaker accused us of being negligent in our rever … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 4 – Don’t Judge Your Husband Ever?

by Michael and Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy magazine - Marriage Good WillEditor's note: Why is it that all men in Pearl World are completely incapable of doing simple things like remembering what drawer is the sock drawer and turning on the hot water faucet in the tub? This is just not right and clearly NOT the responsibility of the wife to make sure her weak little man-baby is spoon fed so he doesn't have to take responsibility for his own care. Disputing Michael's observation that a man forgetting where his socks are stored is a 'normal man habit' It's the hallmark of a disrespectful guy who has no business being married! Ugh! Is he a husband or a six foot tall toddler that shaves? … [Read more...]

Created To Need A Help Meet: Part 1 Washing of the Word (The Heavenly Climax of Spirit!)

by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom MormonTrigger warning: Michael talks about sex and the church. May cause nausea!p 151-154Today we are starting the chapter called Washing of the Word. Supposedly Michael is going to explain how men are to sanctify their wife. Of course, the purpose of sanctification is to turn the wife into the ideal help meet. And by that, I mean turn the wife into what the man wants. Let's begin, shall we? Also in this section is a rare treat. We are blessed an honored to get a genuine sermon in the midst of all this teaching. Or, in other words, Michael talks on and on and on about how wonderful marriage is. … [Read more...]