The Power of the Transformed Wife: Part 2 – Grin and Bear It Silently

by Suzanne TitkemeyerWe're back in chapter 8 'Win Him Without a Word' word salad and Lori says this: Remember, the real fight is not with your husband. Ah yes, that old scapegoat from behaving with personal responsibility - Satan. I'm sure he's out there causing tsunamis and earthquakes, far too busy to make your Mr. Right fail penis first into a strange vagina. Satan gets blamed for a lot of things in this culture that we ourselves willingly do. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 5 – Fathers Own Daughters?

by Sarah Faith Schlissel from Chalcedon and BibleTopics.com – Daddy’s Girl: Courtship and a Father’s RightsEditor's note: More twisted flip-flopping on fathers own daughters theme. This time she claims that a woman cannot make a vow and have it be binding on its own because her vows belong to Daddy. … [Read more...]

Sincere Tyranny

by Cindy Foster cross posted from her blog Finding Fundamental “Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies.  … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 4 – Fathers Own Daughters?

by Sarah Faith Schlissel from Chalcedon and BibleTopics.com – Daddy’s Girl: Courtship and a Father’s Rights Editor's note: In this bit it's clear that the author believes that Father is God to a daughter, not God Himself. Fathers own daughters completely in this world. Is that not a heresy according to the Bible she likes to quote in this piece. Cherry-picking justifications and mental Twister. … [Read more...]

NLQ Question of the Week: Why Cherry-Pick the Bible?

This is a series we run every Thursday. The questions are things that people who may not know much about the Quiverfull movement or even Fundamentalist or Evangelical Christianity ask about the lifestyle. Examining some of the questions involving Quiverfull theology and life can only shine a light on the toxic nature of this lifestyle choice. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 3 – Fathers Own Daughters?

by Sarah Faith Schlissel of Chalcedon and BibleTopics.com – Daddy’s Girl: Courtship and a Father’s RightEditor's note: She moves on to the idea of being 'owned', except the menfolk. They are not 'owned', they are 'owners'. According to the author only 'Sinners' object to being under ownership. … [Read more...]

Manipulating by Equalizing Blame

by Virginia Knowles cross posted from her blog Watch The ShepherdTrigger warning for discussion of abuse.Psychological Socialism: Manipulating through Equalizing BlameWhat is “psychological socialism”?  I’m so glad you asked!  It’s a term I coined a few years ago as rough concept after reading a friend's Facebook status (more on that later). Since then, I’ve done a lot of research … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 2 – Fathers Own Daughters?

by Sarah Faith Schlissel of Chalcedon and BibleTopics.com - Daddy's Girl: Courtship and a Father's RightsEditor's note: So this was written something like twenty years ago, but there are many in the CPM that still believe this harmful 'ownership' concept. Wasn't slavery and person ownership outlawed over a century ago in America? … [Read more...]

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Man Ought To Find A Woman?

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 1 … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 1 – Fathers Own Daughters?

by Sarah Faith Schlissel from Chalcedon and BibleTopics.com - Daddy's Girl: Courtship and a Father's RightsEditor's note: This is piece is too lengthy, creepy, wrong and toxic to unpack in one short quoting so this is split into pieces. What do you think? Do daddys own their daughters even without the mess that is courtship? … [Read more...]