Quoting Quiverfull: Declining Birth Rates Dooming Children to Huge Future Burdens?

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by Shannon Roberts of Mercator.Net - No One is Winning From the World's Lack of Children as renamed and quoted by Ladies Against Feminism - Are Your Children Ready For The Future?Editor's note: Is either posting really making a believable point that not increasing the population will harm our children's future? After reading both I'm still not entirely sure what this terrible 'burden' is because of declining birth rates. Typical Evangelical scare tactics to reinforce compliance with extra Biblical rules and submission roles for women, dominance by men. … [Read more...]

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Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Young Man Witnessing to Young Lady

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Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 18 … [Read more...]

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Happy Mother’s Day – Trying Out Motherhood

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So this is sort of off topic and not Quiverfull related at all but in honor of Mother's Day this seemed appropriate to share. The Try Guys of Buzzfeed.com are exploring motherhood as only guys can. Enjoy.Too bad that trying out motherhood like this isn't mandatory in high school because it might just make kids think twice about sex without birth control. One of my children did the Baby Think It Over for three days and nights and by the end was laying in her bed crying that she felt 'so trapped'. The experience taught her that she was not going to be ready for motherhood for quite some time. Not a bad thing to realize. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Get To Cranking Out Those Babies Young Or Else?

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by Nancy Campbell from Above Rubies - God Laughs At Man's WisdomEditor's note: Your Mother's Day fear-mongering, anti-education, anti feminism fear tactics courtesy of Nancy Campbell. She's blaming and shaming a lot of different things in this one short posting. Laughing, oh Nancy, your hatred is showing again. … [Read more...]

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Why You Are The Problem

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by Living Liminal cross posted from her blog Living LiminalIt was a few days before the meeting at which the board's official 'advice' was to be handed down to me. By this stage, it was pretty obvious what that advice would be. As they'd spent the past 3 weeks being 'unavailable' - far too busy doing 'important things' to talk to me - it didn't take a genius to work out I was being hung out to dry.I was sitting in the lounge room of elder R because I wanted to talk to him before I got officially shafted by the board. I was hoping (in vain!) that if I shared my concerns about the behavior of elder J and his wife, and the board members backing him, that he'd realize there was something … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Hindus Out ‘Soul-Winning’ Just Like IFB?

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by Pastor Steven L. Anderson of Faithful Word Baptist Church - Hinduism in Light of the BibleEditor's note: This 'story' of his would be much more believable if Anderson substituted the word 'Mormon' or 'Baptist' or 'Jehovah's Witness' for 'Hindu'. In all my years on this planet, and even in places where Hindus were prominent I have yet to ever see proselytizing Hindus. If you make something up to prove a point in a sermon is it still considered a 'lie' or an acceptable omission for the Lord? I'm curious, where is that 'lie line'? … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet – Introductions, Acknowledgements and Michael, the Manly Man

For this series I'm using a photograph of a crab taken on the beaches of Costa Rica. Ever since reading the terrible crabbing honeymoon story of Debi and Michael Pearl crabs always remind me of him.

by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom MormonEditor's note: Thank you Aletha for sharing this with us! Welcome~Ok. I'm just going to jump right in. "Created to Need a Help Meet" by Michael Pearl. The companion marriage-help book to his wife, Debi's, "Created to Be a Help Meet".  Passages from the book will be in purple, just to make things simpler. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: How Not Voting Is Actually Voting?

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by Zsuzsanna Anderson from Are They All Yours?!?! - Okay, I VotedEditor's note: This is Pastor Steven L. Anderson's wife's response to another piece quoted here where she explained all the reasons why women should not vote. She got push back on that issue from her own group of supporters. Here's how she claims she votes. Lots of shaming and blaming as usual. Emphasis below mine on something she claims others do when it's obvious she too wastes time online. I would check to see if her pants were on fire, but she thinks wearing pants is a sin. Is her skirt scorched and smoking yet? … [Read more...]

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Mothers Day Open Thread: Do You Have Regrets or Wisdom to Impart?

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by Suzanne TitkemeyerAnother Mother's Day is almost upon us again and I have questions of all the readers here that left the Evangelical Quiverfull Movement. Do you regret having or trying to have a large number of children? What would you do differently if you did it over? What did you learn? What would you like others to know?Mother's Day can be one of the hardest days of the year for those in or out of the church because of society's insistence that motherhood be presented in a sentimental perfect light, even if you aren't Quiverfull. It's hard to stuff down negative feelings and experiences on a Hallmark manufactured holiday and pretend to a happiness you may not feel. If you are … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Don’t You Dare Be Tired?

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by Nancy Campbell - Above Rubies - God Will Sustain YouEditor's note: Yet again the message is deny how you feel and keep plodding on because God. Not very emotionally healthy for anyone. … [Read more...]

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