Guns & Patriarchy

January 23, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Calulu Does the woman in the picture look like a lethal threat to you? Yesterday I lived through what had to be one of the more difficult days I’ve experienced in a lifetime. I spent from early morn till late afternoon waiting to be questioned as a possible juror in a local murder trial. [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: “Immoral” Decision?

January 23, 2013 By 15 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Gender Roles & Responsibility: Part 1

January 21, 2013 By 23 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser [Editorial Note: This article is intended for those readers who have chosen to accept the Bible as authoritative for faith and practice. If you are not one of those readers, please be understanding of the intended audience and refrain from commenting on the assumptions on which it is based. Please refrain from [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Not On The Radar?

January 21, 2013 By 7 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Spiritual Abuse at The ROC: Following God

January 20, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Following God (Editor note: People coming out of The ROC have been congregating online at the Richmond Outreach Center Recovery Group on Facebook. Their mission is to help disillusioned former members of The ROC in their recovery from spiritual abuse. This young lady’s story is a brief one but she wishes

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