Quoting Quiverfull: Say No to Anything Not Home, Husband and Children?

by June Fuentes of A Wise Woman Builds Her Home - Cultivating a Rich Christian HomeEditor's note: While I will agree that super busyness is not a good thing for most folks, it has nothing to do with if you should be staying home submitting to your husband and homeschooling your children. Busyness is sometimes an excuse to avoid facing up to the real tough issues of life for many women and men. It's a bellwether mark of pressure, guilt and legalism in many Quiverfull churches that leadership puts on followers. … [Read more...]

NLQ Question of the Week: You Must Raise Exceptional Alpha Children to Take Over The World?

This is a new series we have started running on Thursdays. Examining some of the questions involving long held Quiverfull theology and life.If you take a look at tonight's Quoting Quiverfull you'll see another female cultural enforcer who is insisting that good Christian Quiverfull mothers must raise powerful Christian children into adults that will take over the world for … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Raising ‘World Changers’, Not Children?

by Unknown at A Wise Woman Builds Her Home - Reclaiming the Lost Vision of MotherhoodEditor's note: Another female cultural enforcer competing for alpha status on her claims that motherhood is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING EVER!!!!!!..... While it is fun to think that every child you raise has the potential to be the most awesome of all time who will impact history, the reality is that 99.99% of people just aren't going to turn out to be that. And that is okay. The world needs everyone, from those in humble positions through exalted. This idea of raising superior people who will take over the world for Christ that flourishes in Evangelicalism and in Quiverfull is a ridiculous one in light of … [Read more...]

My Healing Continues

by Living Liminal cross posted from her blog Living LiminalIn recent years, I've become accustomed to certain people pretending that I don't exist. If I won't shut up and go away or roll over and play dead, the only option left, apparently, is for them to refuse to acknowledge my existence.There was a time when it used to upset me. Eventually, I got to a place where it mostly amused me. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Moments of Frustration are ‘Temper Tantrums’?

by Lori Alexander from Always Learning - His Wife Had a Temper TantrumEditor's note: I don't know what's worse about this piece, the nasty abusive-looking graphic she uses of a woman with a raised fist, or the idea later in the unquoted bits of this piece that having a bad moment of frustration that boils out like this is somehow the same as a temper tantrum a child might throw. That graphic, I cannot get over it, feels abusive. Her advice that you should just put up with any old behavior from your husband without saying a word is equally toxic. In a good marriage there is room for disagreement and discussion and even grace for very bad moments when you lose it like this. … [Read more...]

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Question For Married Ladies

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 1 … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Girls Should Be Meek, Mild and QUIET!?

by Lori Alexander from Always Learning - Terrible Advice For GirlsEditor's note: Lori is reacting to a screen shot going around Facebook from Instagram that I have posted below. The advice given is pretty decent because it advises girls to have healthy boundaries, to say no when the situation warrants it, to get messy, dirty, loud, and to have some fun in this life. All the things that clearly would make Lori Alexander and all the other good female cultural enforcers lose their freaking minds. Cannot have girls speaking their minds, laughing loudly or wearing their hair as they please now can we? … [Read more...]

News: Jinger Duggar Officially Engaged

It's all over the internet, not just on the tabloid sites, that Jeremy Vuolo has asked Jinger Duggar to marry him and she has accepted his proposal. All wonderfully timed for the second season of the new Duggar television show 'Counting On'.More from USA Today: … [Read more...]

The Do-Nothing God

by Bruce Gerencser cross posted from his blog The Life and Times of Bruce GerencserYesterday, a two-year-old (some reports say the child was three) boy died after his parents left him in the car while they attended an afternoon worship service at Rehoboth Praise Assembly in East Dallas, Texas. Forty-five minutes into the worship service, the boy’s parents realized that they had left him in the car. Sadly, it was too late. The one hundred degree Texas heat had rendered the boy unconscious. He was pronounced dead later that night at a local hospital. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Worship Your Husband?

by Larry Solomon of Biblical Gender Roles - Should a Christian Wife Worship Her Husband?Editor's note: Part of me feels almost sorry for Larry because his constant harping on how wives are supposed to be ultra-submissive to their husbands and all his focus on worship and sex sounds more like bitter self justifications or perhaps the stuff of fantasies instead of his daily reality. Another case of a weak wimpy manboy perhaps instead of real advice from a patriarch? Respecting someone is vastly different than worshiping them. … [Read more...]