Quoting Quiverfull: Martyrbating Over Your Haters?

by Lori Alexander from Always Learning - How You Can Love Those Who Hurt YouEditor's note: Here's a thought - it's way easier to simply not take offense when your husband is a thoughtless jerk or just immediately call him on it and move on. Or someone says something unkind to you or something else happens that you want to make all about you. Don't take offense. Realize it might just be a bad moment for that other person, or some other factor you have no knowledge of that has nothing to do with you! That is way more 'loving' than thinking about how those that hurt you are going to be punished or have already lost. … [Read more...]

Does the Church Know What Love Really Is?

by Living Liminal cross posted from her blog Living Liminal "If You are struggling with any area of [this] information it is your problem, not ours. If you feel a breakdown in trust and relationship it is your issue not ours. If you don't seem to be able to give a righteous response to what you believe was said and done then go and seek counsel. You have been ministered to, you have been included, you have been loved." [Emphasis added] … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Shut Up About Your Bad Marriage Because God is Using it to ‘Refine’ You?

by John Piper of Desiring God and The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood as lifted and reposted by Lori Alexander's blog Always Learning - The Cost of Covenant Keeping LoveEditor's note: Wow, talk about dangerous tripe, this entire piece, including the parts I did not quote for brevity's sake. There's even a section where it says you can never consider divorce, ever ever, that you must erase the word from your mind. What this 'stay married' post does not take into account are the many marriages that are abusive, either physically or mentally, the marriages that flounder because there is no earthly way for either partner to meet the needs of the family and a myriad of other awful … [Read more...]

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Stay At Home Daughters?

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 1 … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Parsing Nancy Campbell – What Does This Mean?

by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies - Are You a Well-Digger?Editor's note: Posting this because it's so unclear and word-salad-y. Is Nancy trying to say that you must pray more, read your Bible more, try to press into God more? Her meaning isn't very clear here and it's one of the few recent posts at her 'Women's Encouragement' that is not just a memed photograph or an announcement about a baby shower/bridal shower or asking for prayer for an ill grandchild. … [Read more...]

22 Red Flags to Watch For at Church

by Suzanne TitkemeyerArticle is 7 pages long. All images by Suzanne Titkemeyer of Every Breaking Wave used with permission, except where noted. Locations noted if known.Recently I went to the beach for a week and was unable to swim in the ocean the entire time I was visiting save for one morning. The local municipalities had the life guards post red flags on the beach to warn everyone that swimming was prohibited. The bacteria levels were dangerously high in the waters.Red flags are universally used to indicate that conditions are too unsafe to continue. Not just at the beach, but in racing, in the scientific fields of medicine and meteorology. It's a distinct warning. … [Read more...]

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Bonus Quoting Quiverfull: Women Are All Lazy Gossips?

by Lori Alexander from Always Learning - Women Have a Tendency to be Lazy and GossipEditor's note: I had another post all lined up for this morning and then I saw this post by Lori Alexander, whose blog really should be renamed 'Always Judging You in the Most Nasty Possible Fashion'. I read the title and thought, 'WHAT?!?' The most lazy and gossipy women I've ever encountered were all stay at home women heavily involved running their local fundamentalist church. It's the opposite to what she's saying. Women who know their worth, who are busy with fulfilling tasks, be they home and children, volunteer positions or careers, don't have the time to waste worrying about what others think, or … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 5 – Bad Marriages Are Like Bad Health?

by Michael and Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy Magazine – Seven Pearls for Finding a Happy MarriageEditor's note: This entire series is sort of ironic in light of how much abuse both of these writers advise their followers to either inflict or endure. A good marriage does take patience, sacrifice and practice, but it's not much of a good marriage if one partner is forcing the other to have sex all the time when not being forced to cook, clean and crab to the point where they collapse. Good marriages don't involve forcing one of the partners to beg strangers for funds enough to have surgery for their chronic neck problems. GOOD MARRIAGES DO NOT EVOLVE ABUSE! … [Read more...]

Redeeming Love: Part 2 – Introducing Michael

by Samantha Field cross posted from her blog Samantha P Field.comPlot summary:Michael sees Angel, God audibly speaks to him and says “This one, beloved.” (53) He buys half an hour with her that night and proposes. She refuses. She continues to refuse, over the next week, quite emphatically. Michael argues with God, leaves town. Angel decides she’s done working for Duchess, demands her wages. Duchess has her beaten. Angel wants Bret Magowan to kill her, provokes him.*** … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 4 – Bad Marriages Are Like Bad Health?

by Michael and Debi Pearl from No Greater Joy Magazine – Seven Pearls for Finding a Happy MarriageEditor's note: Oh no, no, no, Michael Pearl is trying to insist that everyone have frequent sexy time like he does. We all know from his honeymoon story that he likes to compare his stamina and frequency of intercourse against other men so anything he might have to say on this subject is void and worthless. This is one of those things that is literally between  the two partners with no wrong or right amount of love making. … [Read more...]