Created To Need A Help Meet: Part 4 Mr. Command Man (What Other Purpose Would A Wife Have – Except To Serve)

by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormonp 114-116Now that we have finished talking about how Command Men are servants, we'll talk about the REAL servants in the Command's life. Namely, the wife of a Command Man. Here goes. Text is in purple. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: If Medical Care Is Too Cheap People Will Go For Ridiculous Things?

by Biblical Gender Roles at Biblical Gender - How the Social Safety Net Encourages DivorceEditor's note: There's just so much bad here that it is going to take days to unpack. But this little bit about people frivolously going to the doctor is so ridiculous! Most people cannot just take off work to go to the doctor for every sniffle or cut. He's actually advocating making health care harder to get and more expensive. … [Read more...]

Part 5 RU:Labor Exploitation For Jesus

by Mel cross posted from her blog When Cows & Kids CollideWe're working our way through the Handbook for RU ministries.Page Four outlines the weekly schedule for inmates disciples.  Since these are people who are dealing with legitimate mental illnesses like alcohol and drug addiction or anorexia, medical treatment programs would include group therapy, individual therapy, classes to learn about coping mechanisms and plenty of time for rest.  The rest time is as important as the other parts because when someone's brain is injured, the brain's way of recovering is through sleep. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Why No Children Alone In Bedrooms?

by Zsuzsanna Anderson of Are They All Yours? - Answering Large Family ObjectionsEditor's note : What is the problem in Quiverfull with allowing children to play alone in their bedrooms? … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: You Can Either Have A Big House Or A Big Family But Not Both

by Zsuzsanna Anderson of Are They All Yours? - Answering Large Family Objections: My, How Small Your House Is!Editor's note: Holy cow! I always thought her house looked teensy from the photos she's posted but not that tiny. My house is bigger than that and we always felt cramped with two kids. I cannot imagine having to put 4 children, much less 8 in such a small space. Plus you cannot just say that everyone with a bigger house has decided that they wanted the house more than children. … [Read more...]

Part 4 – RU: Labor Exploitation For Jesus

by Mel cross posted from her blog When Cows & Kids CollideWe've covered why RU should be compared to inpatient treatment facilities, their spurious views on addictions and the lack of trained staff on site.This information alone would be enough to send me running for the hills, but let's pretend for a minute that I'm still interested in going to RU Schools of Discipleship like Josh Duggar did.  They have a four part application process.    The first step is to read the handbook fully and until you completely understand it.Page 1 is a cover page. … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Older Mothers of Many Have It Best?

by Zsuzsanna Anderson from Are They All Yours? - Answering Large Family Objections - Part 2 - My, How Old You Are!Editor's note: I don't even know where to start with this one because of the horrible ideas about what people who aren't Quiverfull do and the idea of having a staff of older children to run things. There's a reason that the medical community thinks that pregnancies in your forties are riskier, and it has nothing to do with the number of children you've had, how many twin pairs you've had or how young you are when you have your first. … [Read more...]

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Cultivating Thankfulness in Yourself?

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 18 … [Read more...]

Part 3 – RU: Labor Exploitation For Jesus

by Mel cross posted from her blog When Cows & Kids CollideThe quality of staffing in inpatient treatment varies greatly.  The American Psychological Association noted that getting qualified staff in substance abuse treatment facilities is difficult due to low pay and weak educational opportunities for employees (pg. 16).  The implied educational criteria is that there are multiple layers of professionals with advanced degrees - doctoral, master's and bachelor's degrees in psychology or medical degrees in psychiatry - with paraprofessionals with less education being overseen and trained by people with advanced degrees (pgs. 16-17). … [Read more...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Part 4 – Michael Pearl Answers Parenting Questions?

by Michael Pearl from No Greater Joy - SINFUL SensitivityEditor's note: And the last bit, all the blaming and shaming that you could want over these three emails asking for advice. Did you expect anything less from Michael? He is decrying ever worrying about how you approach people if you make an attempt not to hurt their feelings. Newsflash Mr. Pearl - Jesus wasn't a dick when he corrected others, except for the time he overturned the tables in the temple, but that wasn't personally attacking any individual. … [Read more...]