Questioning the Pearls: Adopted Children Sexual Deviants?

For well over a year we’ve been running a second Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ on Sundays, filled with questions by young ladies trying to get ready for marriage. Since we’ve run through many of the questions on their site it’s time to shift Sundays to something else, like perhaps examining the cornucopia of probably fake emails and questions that Michael and Debi Pearl of No Greater Joy post on their website and the possibly poisonous answers they give. … [Read More...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Clinton Voters Are Blood Thirsty Jezebels?

by Tim Bayly from Bayly Blog - Hillary Clinton Follow the MoneyEditor's note: Bayly starts off this nasty nonsense by comparing the amounts raised by Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton in their campaigns. Then he moves straight into complaining that Hillary spent every cent from her war chest. He mentions that Trump paid himself from his donations while not seeing anything wrong with that. Twisted logic that goes into a very dark place. Amazing too that he's still rehashing the election at this late date. Suspect it's mostly just to hit at those rebellious unsubmissive women he hates. … [Read More...]

Freedom of Religion According to Evangelicals

by Bruce Gerencser cross posted from his blog The Life and Times of Bruce GerencserI spent fifty years in the Christian church. Twenty-five of those years were spent pastoring Evangelical churches in Ohio, Michigan, and Texas. I attended an Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Bible College in the 1970s. Most my Christian life was spent either attending or pastoring Baptist churches. As young aspiring pastor, I was taught that there was a strict separation between church and state; that freedom of religion was absolutely crucial to the life of the American Republic and to the status of religion. Church and state were equal planes, each having their sphere of influence. Churches and preac … [Read More...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Satan Hates Quiverfull?

by Nancy Campbell from Above Rubies - What Flags Are You Flying?Editor's note: Nancy goes right after everything that is against the Quiverfull mindset and declares it a lie of Satan. Lie of Satan. That's pretty strong considering all of the things on this list are those of personal preference more than hard rules in the Bible. … [Read More...]

The Power of the Transformed Wife: Chapter 4 – Lori Says You Are Reading Paul All Wrong!

by Suzanne TitkemeyerLast chapter was all about learning not to control what your husband eats, no matter how badly it pisses you off. Lori goes so far as to say that if your husband develops diabetes or keels over dead from a widowmaker heart attack brought on by his ice cream and potato chip binges it is entirely his fault because he made the choice to hoover down the bad stuff. But you get the distinct impression that if Ken bought the farm from a heart attack Lori would be gloating in an 'I told you so' mood over his coffin. … [Read More...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Treat Abusive Husbands Well?

by Nancy Campbell from Above Rubies - It Begins With Your HusbandEditor's note: While the idea of treating others like you like to be treated is a good one Nancy takes it too far. Sorry, but if your husband is verbally abusing you the answer is not be nicer to him! It's not going to convict him, or force him to change. Chances are he'll just get worse because you're telling him that however he treats you is alright with you. This is not what healthy emotional boundaries in marriage relationships look like! … [Read More...]

Fascinating False Attributions and Representative Heuristics

by Cindy Kunsman cross posted from her blog Under Much Grace.All images by Cindy Kunsman of Under Much Grace and used with permission. Just a reminder that the purpose of this discussion aims at stimulating thought and self awareness as tools to help those in recovery from trauma learn how to make safer choices. To make the discussion more jocular, we've defined Cognitive Biases as “CranioRectal Inversions” (CRI). … [Read More...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Women Can Never Teach?

by Lori Alexander from The Transformed Wife - Reasons Women Should Be Able to PreachEditor's note: The words in italics are from an article printed in the UK and the regular font right after is Lori responding directly to those words. This was all so nasty, blaming and shaming, like much of Lori's website, but this part about the periods and harassment is just vitriolic. The last time I checked being harassed is possibly a legal issue as well, so this advice to shut up about these things except to your girlfriends is so disrespectful! … [Read More...]

NLQ Question of the Week: Why No Mutual Submission?

This is a series we run every Thursday. The questions are things that people who may not know much about the Quiverfull movement or even Fundamentalist or Evangelical Christianity ask about the lifestyle. Examining some of the questions involving Quiverfull theology and life can only shine a light on the toxic nature of this lifestyle choice.al … [Read More...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Men Doing Housework Have Less Sex?

by Lori Alexander from The Transformed Wife - Women Who Do Housework Live Longer and Have More SexEditor's note: How very disingenuous of Lori to say that women who do housework have more sex just because of one lone study. One study that only studied men doing housework and their level of sexual activity. Men who do housework and have less sex does not automatically extrapolate out to women doing housework have more sex. … [Read More...]

Quoting Quiverfull: Technology Addictions?

by Phil Telfer of Generations Radio - Cultivating Healthy Family CultureEditor's note: This seems to be a new strawman to rail against in Quiverfull lately - the use of technology. Nancy Campbell and others have all posted dire warnings about allowing smart phones at the dinner table, church and family times. This is more of the same. While it's a good idea to control how much of your time is eaten up by screens many of these folks are coming across as alarmists. Equating the screen time with the ruin of families. … [Read More...]

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – How Can I Be More Clean/Organized?

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical,  rational and the best possible solution, in other words 1 … [Read More...]