Here is an interesting posting from Lauren’s blog.
In life you are usually faced with two decisions when dealing with other people that you disagree with or have some problem with.
1. One to sit on your feelings and continue to feel that way.
2. To talk to the person and deal with them in an upfront manner, despite what your inner voice is telling you to do.
What I am about to say is what I suggest that you do:
Stop for a minute and look at the person and find ONE thing that you like about them. Decide for yourself that you can come to an understanding with that person’s point of view. Then try to work it out, sure there might be some yelling or tears … but work it out.