As the title says (and quote marks imply) – by HARRIET PAGE. Not me. Direct comments to the FB link.
Seth McFarlane thought it was ok to reduce the artistic expression of women who chose to appear naked in movies to little more than a voyeuristic ditty about boobs. One of my friends, a man I like and respect, told me I was overreacting when I expressed my anger at a sexist joke.
A member of the House of Lords was revealed to have sexually harassed a number of women throughout his career. Members of his party knew about this, and chose to do nothing.
…It’s a short list, rather than a comprehensive one. It’s a list that some might see as trivial compared to what might have been on there; like the fact that a 15 year old girl in the Maldives who was raped by her stepfather is facing 100 lashes of the whip for engaging in pre-marital sex, or that Oscar Pistorius shot Reeva Steenkamp dead, and the reaction of the media was to print pictures of her posing in a bikini.
I don’t want to talk about those things though; not because I don’t think they’re important and not because I don’t find them heart-breaking, because I do. All but the most hard-line misogynists would, I think, condemn such abuse. And that’s my point; because what I want to talk about is not the obvious misogyny that we can all agree to despise, but rather the unconscious behaviours and attitudes that go unchallenged because in this country there is a taboo about breaking the silence on the wearying, everyday grind of normal, legitimized sexism.
And so I want to talk about the men who claim to stand on the side of equality but, through their words, actions and inaction, perpetuate the culture of sexism. I want to talk about feminism’s false allies; the men I call the sleepwalking sexists.