Response to “That’s Not My Goddess-Hekate” by Pagan Voices on the Grape Vine.

Response to “That’s Not My Goddess-Hekate” by Pagan Voices on the Grape Vine. June 9, 2019

Triple formed goddess Hekate - the goddess is shown around a central pillar and also wearing a polos (stylised pole) on her head. Drawing by Richard Cosway (5 November 1742 – 4 July 1821)
Drawing by Richard Cosway (5 November 1742 – 4 July 1821)

An Open Letter to “Pagan Voices”

You recently wrote and published an article entitled That’s Not My Goddess-Hekate on the Grape Vine.  I am guessing you were reacting to something you read, just like I am reacting to what you wrote.  It is not clear from your article though.

At the end of your article you suggested that readers should: “Call your mentor, your priest or priestess if they were unhappy with the article.  Perhaps this is the reason that I have had more than a few frustrated emails and messages about your article.

Firstly, let me say that I feel and believe that your article was well intended and that it is clear from what you wrote that you have a deep love and passion for the Mysteries of Hekate.  It is not my intention to cause you hurt, nor to chastise you for your efforts in trying to get readers to think about the Goddess’s Mysteries and History in a more factual way.   I feel, like you, that it is very important.

However, the reason I had so many people draw my attention to your article is for the very reasons you took to your keyboard and wrote your article.  It is because your article is riddled with some serious misinformation and misunderstandings; mixed with some good accurate information and many devotees of the Goddess are keen to prevent further misinformation being spread about Her.  Patheos has a very wide readership and your article therefore may be read by many people today and into the future.

In this letter to you, I am going to quote and then respond to some of the things you said.  I am doing so as a Priestess and Devotee of Hekate, and someone who cares deeply about Her mysteries.  Maybe we can work together and get you to edit some of the mistakes in your article?  I would be up for that.

Beautiful colour image of Hekate with two torches in the style of the time. Top left is written “Hekate” and the name of the card is “Goddess of Darkness” [Gasoline card, 1890 - author's personal collection]
Hecate, Gasoline card, 1890 – author’s personal collection

Let’s address some of the more serious mistakes (which are actually few):


You wrote:
“You see, my Goddess is being inaccurately portrayed, lately…and She’s pissed about it. “

I agree with you.  Hekate, who is a Goddess worshipped by thousands of people around the world, is portrayed in an appalling way by some people, especially those who make attempts at reducing Her importance.

You wrote:
“Hekate was not originally a Greek Goddess.”

Where is your proof for this statement?  The oldest known depiction of Hekate, inscribed with Her name, was found in Athens. Athens has been the heart of Greece for millennia. It is however true that Her origins may have been in Anatolia, Caria, elsewhere in the Aegean, the Middle East or other bits of Asia Minor.  But it could also have been in Greece.  There are stories about the Goddess Artemis turning mortal women into Hekate, which I think is what your reference about the Princess being immortalised into Hekate is about; but the Goddess Hekate is much older than those stories. There are many myths about Her origin, none of them are absolute truths.  Mind you, I have in the past perhaps also believed the idea that she wasn’t originally Greek- and possibly even wrote it myself, but that is before I studied and looked deeper into Her history and found that we simply don’t really know for certain.

You wrote:
“Unlike today, ancient people were not so arrogant as to believe that they could “own” a god or spirit.”

I agree with you, however in the third line of your article, you refer to Hekate as “my Goddess”, indicating that you “own” the Goddess.  You wrote about the Goddess as if she is yours, but you don’t approve of others doing it?  Maybe you didn’t mean it like that, but that is what it sounds like.

You wrote:
“So when the Greeks met and fell in love with Her, they too began to honor Her.” 

Again some of the earliest records of the worship of the Goddess Hekate is from Athens which is in Greece.  We have no record of the Greeks “meeting” Hekate, other than perhaps some friezes from a Hellenic temple in Caria.

You wrote:
“My Queen was not originally depicted with having three faces.”

Very true.  I can also not argue with you that the three-faces are later and that the idea of a Crone is a strictly 20th century invention, I wrote a blog (with carefully cited sources) about that some time ago.  You may have read it, but if not you might find it interesting:  Is she the Crone? Hekate’s Profanation.

You wrote:
“She also insisted that Her offerings be meals left for the poor to eat.”

This is not true.  There is no record that she insisted on anything like this that we know about, but there is a reference in an ancient Greek text, and in the later Sudas, which you quote, that the poor took the food left at the crossroad meals.  I really love it when modern devotees offer food to homeless charities or food banks as an act of devotion, it makes perfect sense.

You write about Goth Chic Hekate, and I have to agree with some of the things you wrote.  She certainly was never historically seen as just dark, scary nor gothic.  However, you also wrote:

“It wasn’t until the rather late developing tale of Persephone’s abduction, that Hekate developed this chthonic reputation”

I have no idea what gives you the idea that the story of Demeter and Persephone is responsible for giving Hekate her connection to the dead, nor why you think it is a “late” story.  The story of Demeter and Persephone is present in the Homeric Hymns, which after The Theogony is the oldest texts we have telling us the stories of the Gods!

You wrote:
“… it wasn’t too long before, She was ascribed the powers of a sorceress.”

Again I have no idea where this information is coming from.  Hekate is not a sorceress, I know some 20th and 21st century texts degrade Her to this role.

So as you can see, it is easy to make mistakes. Your article really only has a few small mistakes in it, but because it was you passionately sharing that you wanted to correct mistakes it has caused a reaction from people who are perhaps only noticing the mistakes – the latter perhaps because of the tone you took when you wrote it 🙂

It is always better to try and do your best to write about what you are passionate about, and to check the facts you find online or that you believe you know.  We all get things wrong!

I hope that this has been helpful to you.  You may also find the following resources helpful:

Online:  and

and the article: Is She the Crone?  Hekate’s Profanation

And the interviews : Georgi and Francine  Children of the Earth Interviews

Or my book Circle for Hekate, Vol.1 which looks specifically at Her history and the myths associated with Her.

ps. including this depiction of Hekate as Childs Nurse just for you (see below) as you so passionately mentioned it in your writing!

Hekate holding a baby, similar to images of Isis holding Horus
Hekate holding a baby, with a dog by her feet.
About Sorita d'Este
Sorita d’Este has been experimenting with ways of walking on the liminal since she was a child, exploring along the way many pathways of experiencing magic, mysticism and religion. Her own personal practice integrates aspects of Hellenic (Greek), Egyptian and Hermetic practices with a lived Orphic inspired philosophy, and experience gained in Initiatory Craft, traditions preserved in Italian, French and British grimoires and other contemporary esoteric teachings of the East and West. You can read more about the author here.

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