Lessons from Parking During the Christmas Rush

Last updated on: November 26, 2023 at 7:23 pm By Gregory T. Smith

While Christmas shopping, parking lots and garages are brutal. Here are some lessons I’ve learned from parking during the Christmas rush. Especially during Christmas, there’s something about the parking garage experience that either brings out the best or the worst in people. Most people are in a hurry, trying to find a space. Often, I have watched as hurried people fly through a parking garage (we call them parkades here in Canada), not only endangering themselves, but others. They miss... Read more

How to Have a Contemplative Christmas

Last updated on: December 12, 2023 at 5:58 pm By Gregory T. Smith

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Amid the hustle and bustle, you can uncover the beauty of stillness and inner peace—a pathway to a more contemplative Christmas. During this festive time, here are eight ways to explore practices taken from the Gospels that will help you to simplify your celebrations. More than mere holiday observances, these practices represent a more thoughtful way of living. They will help you focus on meaningful connections with loved ones and acts of kindness that resonate with the spirit of Christmas... Read more

A Thoughtless Gift: Contemplative Prayer

Last updated on: November 25, 2023 at 8:38 am By Gregory T. Smith

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Giving a thoughtless Christmas gift is a bad thing. But contemplative prayer is a gift that moves beyond your thoughts and into the Spirit. Nobody likes to receive a thoughtless Christmas present. It shows that you gave no consideration to the person who’s going to receive the gift. Thoughtlessness is rarely a good thing. We use the word “thoughtless” to describe someone who’s either forgetful and daydreaming or someone who’s just plain rude. Most people would much rather be described... Read more

Wrestling With God: When My Faith Contradicts Itself

Last updated on: November 23, 2023 at 6:15 pm By Gregory T. Smith

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Should I be worried that my faith is full of contradictions? When I question what I’ve been taught, am I wrestling with God? Sometimes I worry about myself because my faith is so full of contradictions. For example, I have found myself drifting further to the left over the last decade or so. Not that I was ever a fundamentalist, but I grew up in a conservative church that made sure I believed certain things. Now, as I regularly experiment... Read more

Stop Dehumanizing and Demonizing Your Enemies!

Last updated on: December 3, 2023 at 8:20 am By Gregory T. Smith

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In a world fractured by war, let’s bring “peace on earth, goodwill to humanity.” Let’s stop dehumanizing and demonizing our enemies. I am a butcher. As a writer, I learned to kill my darlings. This literary phrase means that a writer must be willing to rip their favorite sections of writing out of their books if they don’t drive the narrative. Back in the days of typewriters, my bedroom floor looked like a charnel house, littered with the corpses and... Read more

Use This One Phrase to Develop Empathy

Last updated on: November 10, 2023 at 11:53 am By Gregory T. Smith

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“I know how you feel” is the worst thing you can tell someone who’s struggling. What’s the one phrase you can use instead to develop empathy? When someone shares their struggles with you, the last thing you should say is “I know how you feel.” That’s because you don’t know how they feel. Even if you have been through something similar, you have never been them and are not capable of walking in their shoes. Is there something better... Read more

Unwrapping the Origins of Christmas Magic

Last updated on: November 23, 2023 at 6:11 pm By Gregory T. Smith

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This time of year, the air fairly crackles with Christmas magic. Children believe in it. Adults encourage it. But where does it come from? So many of our movies and stories feature the concept of Christmas magic. Beyond the biblical narrative of Jesus’ birth, there’s this notion that magic and miracles take place at Christmas. In film, people wish on Christmas stars. Angels show up and grant wishes. Chance meetings end in lifelong happiness. The concept of Christmas magic is... Read more

A Closer Look at Ferris’s “The First Thanksgiving”

Last updated on: November 4, 2023 at 3:37 pm By Gregory T. Smith

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Painting “The First Thanksgiving” by Ferris is racist propaganda misrepresenting the first meal between White settlers and Native Americans. As we gather around Thanksgiving tables or watch children’s school assemblies, we hear stories of peaceful and harmonious interactions between Native Americans and White settlers. The painting, “The First Thanksgiving,” by Jean Leon Gerome Ferris depicts the first mythical meal shared by the two groups. In his blog, Teddy Barbier writes about the famous piece of art that functions more... Read more

Is Opposing Israeli’s War in Gaza Antisemitic?

Last updated on: November 17, 2023 at 3:22 pm By Gregory T. Smith

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“Antisemitism”—You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. Is it antisemitic to oppose Israel’s war in Gaza? The charge of antisemitism is easy to lay on someone critical of the Israeli policy against Palestinians. Not long ago, someone called me antisemitic for sharing facts about Israel’s policy of abuse and apartheid. But antisemitism is different than simple opposition to Israeli policy. Is it Antisemitic to Oppose Israeli Policy? Some will... Read more

3 Solutions When Deconstruction Makes You Crazy

Last updated on: October 29, 2023 at 1:23 pm By Gregory T. Smith

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In religious deconstruction, you dismantle theologies and carefully reconstruct them. What do you do when deconstruction makes you crazy? Recently, a theology student told me about the classes that challenged her deeply held beliefs. Any good theology class will do this. I remember the seminary classes that upended my own simplistic Sunday school education. The first time you hear that Moses didn’t write the Pentateuch, it can rattle your cage. Or, if you believe the Bible is infallible but then... Read more