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March 2017

March 22, 2017
Dads, we know you love your daughter. And you know you love your daughter. But...
March 21, 2017
Have you seen the video of people, wearing white or black shirts, passing a basketball...
March 15, 2017
So there you are, in your best suit, giving a Skype video presentation in your...
March 14, 2017
There are two types of people in the world: those with the quick zinger and...
March 01, 2017
I love that social science now regularly disproves this long-held belief of our culture: that...

January 2017

January 16, 2017
Today (January 16, 2017) marks a big day: the launch of the 30-Day Kindness Challenge...
January 10, 2017
Does your mother-in-law make you want to pull your hair out by criticizing every move...

December 2016

December 20, 2016
MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT TONIGHT AT 8 pm ET VIA FACEBOOK LIVE! You know those days when...
December 15, 2016
While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are...
December 08, 2016
I don’t have a lot of pet peeves. But one of the few is when...

November 2016

November 24, 2016
You know those college-football bumper magnets that say “A house divided?” Perhaps she supports University...
November 02, 2016
Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into...

October 2016

October 24, 2016
Recently, someone asked what I think about the “Married Sex During the Week” video posted...
October 19, 2016
Have you heard the joke: How does someone from Canada cheat on a test?  They...
October 18, 2016
Every relationship – even the happiest ones! -- will have moments of conflict. And how...
October 13, 2016
Men: If you want more sex, give her better anticipation time Although some couples are...
October 11, 2016
Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands,...
October 04, 2016
A reader recently asked: “Why does my boyfriend always seem to RUN from a conflict? ...
October 03, 2016
Dear sister,   You say in your angry Amazon review of For Women Only and...

September 2016

September 29, 2016
After I finished speaking at a recent women’s event, a beautiful woman who I will...
September 27, 2016
Hi everyone – I thought you’d want to see this piece from the Washington Post, which...
September 23, 2016
Ladies, whether it is refusing to admit he needs to go to the doctor, or...
September 01, 2016
OK, it’s my turn to ask a question: why do we think it is okay...

August 2016

August 25, 2016
Last week, speaking primarily to women, we revealed the sneaky trap that will quietly but...
August 18, 2016
“If I had heard this a few years ago, I wouldn’t be divorced today.” I...
August 04, 2016
While we women enjoy hearing our man tell us “I love you” often to reassure...

July 2016

July 29, 2016
This might sound odd, but I’m really, really grateful for my 16-year-old daughter’s car accident...
July 13, 2016
Several people have passed along this hilarious GIF – but have also wondered why it...
July 07, 2016
Not long ago, someone we know got engaged via a multi-stage, elaborate proposal that had...

June 2016

June 29, 2016
“How was school?” (Shrug.)  “Fine.” “What did you do?” “Nothin’.” If this sounds familiar, join...
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