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June 2016

June 27, 2016
Whether you want to improve a difficult marriage or celebrate a great one, I’ve seen...
June 23, 2016
Men, in more than a dozen years of research about how guys privately think about...
June 08, 2016
Although this article is for women, I’m sure some astonished men are looking in, and...
June 07, 2016
Ladies, have you ever had one of those moments when you were at the boiling...

May 2016

May 18, 2016
Author note: This is one of a series giving a sneak peek into what I...
May 12, 2016
Not that this ever happens.  But every now and then our kids (girls and boys)...
May 03, 2016
Many boys these days go through challenging times that are not of their making, and...

April 2016

April 29, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
April 26, 2016
There’s a very short scene in the 2015 live-action Cinderella movie that secretly touches the...
April 22, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
April 15, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
April 11, 2016
A woman came up to me after a talk about gender differences and asked, “My...
April 08, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
April 05, 2016
While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are...
April 01, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...

March 2016

March 31, 2016
Men: Want to make your wife insanely happy? Try this one phrase. The man sidled...
March 25, 2016
Author Shaunti Feldhahn talks about Secret #6 to a highly happy marriage. The happiest spouses...
March 21, 2016
Ladies, whether it is refusing to admit he needs to go to the doctor, or...
March 16, 2016
Earlier, I wrote a piece about how this culture is seriously messed up when it...
March 16, 2016
In today's culture, you are either a "slut shamer" or "celebrating a woman's body" through...
March 15, 2016
As both a social researcher who has interviewed and surveyed thousands of boys and a...
March 07, 2016
My sweet mother-in-law went to be with Jesus last night. We are grieving, but we...
March 04, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
March 02, 2016
The funniest movie moment I saw last summer comes at the very end of Inside Out, as...

February 2016

February 25, 2016
Last week, I posted an article, "Why not take the test drive? The case against cohabitation,"...
February 15, 2016
I’m a pastor who works with young couples.  As you know, most people live together...
February 12, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
February 10, 2016
Ladies, if there were a reality TV show like “What NOT to Wear,” but for...
February 05, 2016
Marriages aren't made or broken through dramatic gestures. It's the small, everyday actions and choices...
February 04, 2016
Men, finish this sentence.  Your wife is upset and says “I don’t want you to...
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