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Check Yourself as a Mate: Being a Wife Instead of a Boss
Dear Shaunti, My husband runs his own construction business, and even though he’s in charge...
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Why won’t my wife trust me?
Dear Shaunti, You say that women have worries that pop up in their minds, almost...
October 2014
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Re-Walking Down the Aisle: Overcoming Second-Marriage Skepticism
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First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then comes…Love: Choosing Sustained Marital Happiness
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August 2014
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Connection Resurrection: Bringing Back The Spark
Dear Shaunti: I’ve been married for 15 years, and my wife is a great mom,...
August 18, 2014
How Do I Respect My Husband When He Makes So Many Mistakes?
Dear Shaunti, I really struggle with the whole ‘respect your husband’ thing you talk about...
August 11, 2014
Prep Time In the Bathroom Could Pay Off In the Bedroom
Dear Shaunti: I used to really look forward to our Friday night date nights, but...
August 07, 2014
And the Oscar Goes To…My Teen Drama Queen
Dear Shaunti, I love my teenage daughter but how do I get her to stop...
August 04, 2014
Give Him Reason to Gawk at You So He Doesn’t Gawk at Google
Dear Shaunti: I read your book, For Women Only, and one thing you said scared...
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Be Grateful For His Creativity Rather Than Grumpy About His Clutter
Dear Shaunti, My husband seems to miss the point of giving me “down time.” When...
July 07, 2014
Sticks and Stones: Your Words Can Build (or Demolish) Your Husband’s Security
Dear Shaunti, My husband and I have been married only three months – and I’ll...
June 2014
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She Values Your Time More than Your Cash
Dear Shaunti, For years now, my wife has been talking about how great it would...
June 09, 2014
My husband is in over his head – how do I fix him?
Dear Shaunti, I recently read For Women Only and I now realize how important it...
June 02, 2014
Prince Charming Wasn’t a Quarterback: Giving Your Son Confidence (Even though He’s Not Mr. Popular)
Dear Shaunti, My 17 year-old son has a great sense of humor, and is fun...
May 2014
May 26, 2014
Let Your Husband Unwind Before You Unload
Dear Shaunti, I am SO DONE with my husband’s grumpiness when he gets home from...
May 18, 2014
At a Loss When Your Husband Gets Lost: It’s Not Just About the Directions
Dear Shaunti, It makes me insane when my husband doesn’t ask for directions. Last weekend...
May 12, 2014
Your Teen Is Watching Even If She Doesn’t Seem to Be Listening
Dear Shaunti, My daughter is 15 years old and I am worried that she is...
May 05, 2014
How Do I Get My Teen to Comply Without Complaining?
Dear Shaunti, I am constantly butting heads with my 14 year-old daughter. Yesterday, she asked...
April 2014
April 28, 2014
Don’t Give the Death Sentence for a Misdemeanor Crime
Dear Shaunti, My 16-year-old son came home an hour past curfew over the weekend –...
April 21, 2014
Don’t Force Your Sex Life into Hibernation Mode By Choosing Sleep Over Sex
Dear Shaunti, We have young kids, and often I’m so exhausted that I just want...
April 17, 2014
Crime and Punishment: When Do Teens Deserve Cell-Phone Restriction?
Dear Shaunti, Undoubtedly, the most effective punishment for my teenage daughter is taking away her...
April 14, 2014
Why Your Male Co-Worker May Be Annoyed at You
Dear Shaunti, I just got out of a big meeting where one of my male...
April 10, 2014
Do We Have to Put Our Conflicts To Bed Before Lights Out?
Dear Shaunti, I’m about to pull my very tired hair out. My wife and I...
April 07, 2014
Hard Truths are Still True: Taking Care of Yourself Shows You Care for Your Marriage
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April 03, 2014
Beyond the Candlelight: Finding Romance In Unusual Places
Dear Shaunti, I wish my husband were more romantic. I love spending time with him—we...
March 2014
March 31, 2014
Gain Respect By Being Direct
Dear Shaunti, How do I get my wife to not play games, and just share...
March 27, 2014
The Process of Processing: Give Your Man Some Space
Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into...
March 24, 2014
Lust at First Glance? The Difference in Seeing vs. Gawking
Dear Shaunti, I read in your book that even happily married men struggle with looking...
March 20, 2014
Being the Bigger Person in “The Little Things”: Showing Your Wife that You Care
Dear Shaunti, I work long hours at a power plant, and my wife often sends...
March 17, 2014
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