
5. Try to do it as often as the spouse with the higher sex drive wants to.
This isn’t always realistic, but whenever possible, I’m convinced that a marriage will thrive if the spouse with the lower drive tries to fulfill the preferred frequency of the spouse with the higher drive. In reality, BOTH spouses need to be willing to step outside his/her comfort zones to put the needs of the other spouse ahead of his/her own needs, but as a rule, more sex is almost always better for a marriage than less sex, so do your best to make it a priority.
#6 reveals something that’s off-limits for a healthy couple…
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