Here are three great thought! Couldnt say it better on the negatives of hatred and the relationship of Self and Soul!
Hating people is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat! ~ Harry Emerson Fosdick
True Friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation ~ George Washington
Self is the only prison that can bind the soul ~ Henry Van Dyke