Everyone reaches a point in life where they wonder: Am I truly walking in my purpose? That question often lingers, especially during times of hardship or transition. For Attorney Evadne K. Smith, the answer began to form when someone said, “You remind me of your mother.”
That moment unlocked something in Evadne’s spirit. It wasn’t just a compliment. It was a reminder of Doris B. Smith, her mother, and a Proverbs 31 woman. Hearing those words confirmed that Evadne was honoring her mother’s memory and stepping fully into her calling.
That moment shaped her confidence and reinforced her belief that her work, both as an attorney and a funeral director, was exactly where she was meant to be. This is her story.
Breaking Misconceptions: A Legacy of Humility and Heart
Because Evadne holds multiple degrees and professional roles, one common misconception about her is that she must be unapproachable. But the truth is the opposite. She is one of the kindest, friendliest, and most humorous people you could meet. She was raised on one of the roughest streets in Anson County, and during her upbringing, her closest companions were the elderly neighborhood drunks. This taught her the value of community and resilience. This perspective keeps her grounded and helps her connect deeply with others.
Anchored in Faith Through Life’s Storms
When life becomes chaotic, Evadne turns to her personal faith to stay grounded. Raised in the Baptist Church, she finds peace in knowing that God never gives her more than she can bear. Romans 8:28 NIV reminds her, “…in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
That deep belief helps her navigate the pressures of work, leadership, and personal challenges. Through prayer and reflection, she finds the strength to keep going, even when the path seems uncertain.
Finding Faith and Identity After Loss
The loss of her mother in 2017 marked a pivotal point in Evadne’s journey. Her mother had been the “glue” that held their family and business together. When Evadne stepped into that role, doubts surfaced. Would she be able to carry the weight her mother once did? She constantly heard comparisons, “She would have done it this way,” but Evadne chose to keep showing up.
With each interaction, Evadne strives to give her best to every family she serves, honoring her mother’s memory while forging her own path.
As an only child, she would learn a powerful truth: she didn’t have to be her mother; she had to be herself. Isaiah 41:10 ERV became her strength: “Don’t worry, I am with you. Don’t be afraid, I am your God. I will make you strong and help you.”
Staying True to Your Legacy and Calling
Society often tries to mold us into what’s trendy or expected. However, Evadne regularly reflects on her identity as the daughter of Harold C. and Doris B. Smith. This reminder reinforces her belief that she is capable of accomplishing any goal she pursues. She recognizes that her existence in this world is intentional, that she possesses resilience, and despite her imperfections, she is valuable and present. Acknowledging this allows her to remain grounded and true to herself, even when external influences seek to alter her path.
Her story reminds us all to stand firm in who we are and whose we are. Romans 12:2 NIV says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Faith-Filled Wisdom and Setting Boundaries
Evadne has come to understand the importance of refraining from lending money to friends. She has recognized the necessity of asserting boundaries by declining such requests. This decision is not made out of a lack of financial resources, but rather stems from Evadne’s belief in the principle that her finances are her responsibility, and she is not obligated to fulfill every request for financial assistance.
It’s not about being unkind. It’s about honoring her values and trusting God as the ultimate provider.
Family Moments That Deepen the Legacy
While her public life is busy, Evadne finds joy in having “sleepovers” with her adult children, Asya and Timothy, and her beloved grand pups, Ace and Bentley. They gather in the living room with cozy blankets and snacks, sharing laughter and memories of their childhood and Evadne’s beloved “mommy angel.” The playful energy of Ace and Bentley adds to their fun, and these cherished moments strengthen their bond, reminding each of the love and joy that family brings.
These cherished moments uphold the loving legacy left by her “mommy angel.”
How Family Keeps Evadne Centered in Faith and Purpose
Asya and Timothy are not just Evadne’s children; they play a crucial role in keeping her grounded and accountable to her best self. They often serve as Evadne’s biggest critics and her most enthusiastic cheerleaders. Their candid feedback helps her recognize when she is overcommitting and losing sight of what truly matters.
They remind Evadne to take a step back, slow down, and breathe, essential practices she sometimes overlooks in the hustle of everyday life. Through their observations, Evadne is reminded that she cannot solve everyone’s problems and that she needs to prioritize her well-being. Asya and Timothy love and support encourage Evadne to carve out time for herself, ensuring she can be the best version of herself for them and others.
Their reminders often echo her mother’s faith-filled wisdom, grounding Evadne in purpose and spiritual clarity
A Faith-Filled Message for Living with Legacy
If Evadne could share one message with the audience, it would be: “Live each day so that you are not afraid of tomorrow and not ashamed of yesterday.” This mantra guides how she lives daily. Evadne believes each day offers a chance to grow and improve. By focusing on the present and learning from the past, her goal is to create a satisfying life where she can move forward confidently and with honesty. It’s about finding balance and purpose in what we do, so we can face the future with hope and reflect on the past with pride.
Evadne’s life philosophy, grounded in faith and personal growth, is simple yet profound.
Resting in Faith: Honoring the Body and Spirit
Rest is an act of stewardship. Evadne is actively working on improving her self-care practices. She recognizes their importance in maintaining both mental and physical health. One way she does this is by designating a specific day to step back from her daily responsibilities. This time is devoted to relaxation, allowing Evadne to recharge and refocus her mind and body.
Scripture encourages rest. Matthew 11:28 NIV says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Rest is part of the divine design.
Evadne believes that such intentional breaks are crucial, as they provide an opportunity to reduce stress and enhance overall well-being, ultimately leading to increased productivity and a clearer mindset.
Stay Connected to Faith, Family, and Evadne’s Legacy
If you’ve been touched by Evadne’s story and want to stay connected, you can reach her at [email protected]. She continues to serve through her law firm, Evadne K. Smith-Little, PC, Attorney at Law, and in her role as Vice-President of Smith’s Funeral Home. Her work is deeply personal. It’s a reflection of her purpose and her family’s legacy.
Purpose and Legacy Are Already Within You
Evadne K. Smith’s journey is a reminder that purpose doesn’t always come loud; it often comes gently, through faith, family, and service. Jeremiah 29:11 NIV says, “For I know the plans I have for you… plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Her life encourages us all to trust that plan, walk boldly in our own calling, and serve with love.
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