Agape: The Highest Form of Unconditional Love

Agape: The Highest Form of Unconditional Love

God’s love for us is often referred to as agape love—image courtesy of Vecteezy.com.

Agape love is the highest form of love. This is a selfless, sacrificial, unconditional love that gives without expecting anything in return. God’s love for us is agape love, as He sacrificed His son’s life for us to be able to find our way back to him. Let’s take a look.

The Definition of Agape Love

The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) defines agape love as:

“The expression of love turned outward toward concern for others.”

An article from SaintlyLiving describes agape as:

“Agape love is selfless, unconditional love. It is the love that gives of itself freely and without expecting anything in return. Agape love is not possessive or jealous; it does not seek to control or manipulate others.”

“However, if you want to love others selflessly, you need God’s agape love in your life, Jesus Christ talked about in the New Testament, which will enable you to sacrificially love others without any selfish motives.”

Agape Love in Action

Some examples of agape love that differentiate it from human love:

A man assisting someone in need.
  • Jesus dying on the cross – Jesus embodies the essence of agape love. God gave us the gift of Jesus and His overwhelming love. Jesus died on the cross so our sins would be forgiven. This is the gift given to every person – God’s incredible and unending love for us. We did nothing to deserve that, and there is nothing we can do to earn it. It is a total gift from God to us. I believe that if more people understood this, they would embrace God and subsequently cooperate with Him in their daily lives.
  • Forgiving others, no matter how badly they hurt you! – Forgiveness is a virtue that we all find difficult to practice. Specifically, when we hurt others, we seek forgiveness; however, when we are hurt, we find it very difficult to forgive. We must pray for the grace to forgive others who have harmed us unselfishly. The more we pray for this great, unselfish love, the more we can share that love with others. Being a follower of Jesus can be very challenging at times.
  • Living that unselfish love daily! – Love is not just a feeling; it inspires action. Once we have accepted God’s love as a gift, our instinct will be to care for and love others as God cares for and loves us.
  • The Good Samaritan  (Luke 10:29-37). In this story, a priest and a Levite pass by a man who has been injured in a robbery. However, a Samaritan traveler is “moved with compassion” and helps the man by treating his wounds and finding him a place to recover.

We cannot contain God’s Love

God’s love is unlike any we have ever experienced. However, once we experience it, we cannot contain it. We must share it with others. That is agape love. Please share your thoughts on the article in the “Comments” section.

Peace

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About Dennis McIntyre
In my early years, I was a member of the Methodist church, where I was baptized as a child and eventually became a lector. I always felt very faith-filled, but something was missing. My wife is Catholic, and my children were baptized as Catholics, which helped me find what I was looking for. I wanted to be part of something bigger than myself, walking with Jesus. I was welcomed into the Catholic faith and received the sacraments as a full member of the Catholic Church in 2004. I am a Spiritual Director and very active in ministry, serving as a Lector and Eucharistic Minister and providing spiritual direction. I have spent time working with the sick and terminally ill in local hospitals and hospice care centers, and I have found these ministries to be both challenging and extremely rewarding. You can read more about the author here.
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