Am I Too Old? A Faithful Answer From Life After 60

A few years ago, if someone had told me I’d be getting married again at 69, moving to a new town, selling my house, starting over in a new law firm — all in the same month — I would have smiled politely and thought they were completely out of touch.

But that’s exactly what happened.

After a 33-year marriage ended in divorce, I entered my 60s not with celebration, but with grief, questions, and the deep ache of letting go. It wasn’t the future I expected. I was adjusting to being single again. To the quiet. To grown children navigating their own lives. To the echo of dreams that had been attached to “we” instead of “me.”

But in the quiet, God did not abandon me. He began to whisper new things.

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The question came like a whisper first

“Am I too old?”

Too old to start over.
Too old to love again.
Too old to make a big change.
Too old to leave what’s known and try something brand new.

It’s a question so many of us ask — especially women. Especially women of faith. We’ve spent decades taking care of others. Building families. Holding marriages together. Serving our churches, our children, our communities.

And then… we wake up one day and realize we’re in a new season. Often unexpected. Often uninvited. And we wonder if it’s too late to still become something more.

But here’s what I’ve learned: if God is opening doors, you’re not too old

 

This new chapter of my life didn’t come because I forced it. It came because I stayed open to the voice of God. I paid attention to the nudges — the ones that said, “Try again,” “Go there,” “Say yes.”

And those yeses added up.

A new relationship blossomed.
A door opened at a law firm in a new town.
The right buyers came for my house.
Courage came in waves — enough to get me through the packing, the paperwork, the goodbyes.

It hasn’t been easy. But it’s been right.

I don’t share this to pretend it’s all wrapped in a bow. Starting over at 69 isn’t glamorous. It’s vulnerable. It’s humbling. It requires stamina — emotional, spiritual, and yes, physical.

Which brings me to a second truth: take care of your body so your spirit can soar.

As we age, we can’t take our health for granted. I don’t mean shrinking to fit into a smaller size or chasing youthful energy. I mean tending to your vessel so that when God calls you to move — whether across town or across seasons — you’re ready to respond.

Stay strong. Stay mobile. Stay grounded. You don’t need to climb mountains, but you do need strength to say yes when He opens the road.

Because the road? It may be longer than you think

 

The Bible is full of people who were “too old” by cultural standards.
Sarah laughed when she was told she’d bear a child in her old age.
Moses was 80 when he led God’s people out of Egypt.
Anna the prophetess served faithfully into her old age, recognizing Jesus when others missed Him.

God is not concerned with how old you are. He is concerned with how open you are.

So to the woman reading this who feels like she missed her moment:
You didn’t.
To the one who thinks she’s stuck in a season of endings:
It might just be your beginning.
To the one afraid to say yes because of her age:
Say yes anyway.

You are not too old. You are being invited.

Take the road God is opening.
Bring your faith.
Pack your wisdom.
Tend to your body.
And show up for the adventure.

Because sometimes, the second act is the best part of the whole story.

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