If you’ve ever laid awake at night replaying conversations, remembering moments you wish you could redo, or grieving the gap between what you hoped for and how things turned out—welcome. You’re in the company of mothers everywhere. Image courtesy of Pexels Mom guilt is heavy. And most of us carry more of it than we admit. We think: “If only I had been more patient…” “If I had done things differently, maybe they wouldn’t be struggling now.” “Did I ruin... Read more
Motherhood doesn’t end when our children grow up.And neither does the weight of wondering whether we got it right. I’ve spoken to so many women lately — women of faith, wisdom, and strength — who are quietly grieving. Grieving the broken relationships with their adult children. Grieving the words said in anger. Grieving the unmet expectations, the distance, the silence. Image courtesy of Pixabay And above all, grieving with guilt. The enemy loves to whisper in that space: “If you... Read more
A few years ago, if someone had told me I’d be getting married again at 69, moving to a new town, selling my house, starting over in a new law firm — all in the same month — I would have smiled politely and thought they were completely out of touch. But that’s exactly what happened. After a 33-year marriage ended in divorce, I entered my 60s not with celebration, but with grief, questions, and the deep ache of letting... Read more
This month, as I celebrate turning 69, my life looks nothing like I imagined it would just a few short years ago. I’m getting married.I’m moving to a new area.I’m starting a new job at a new law firm. All at once. To say I’m experiencing a big change would be an understatement.Some days I wake up feeling energized and ready. Other days, the “what ifs” creep in and try to rob my peace. I’m a little nervous, a little... Read more
As Christians, we are called to love and support one another through life’s trials, and this includes our sisters in Christ who have experienced the painful journey of divorce. While the church is often seen as a place of healing and refuge, many divorced women may feel excluded or judged rather than embraced. I have personally felt the sting of this stigma. Why does this occur, even in 2025? Image courtesy of Pexels The Couple-Oriented Nature of Church Activities Many... Read more
I don’t make New Year’s resolutions. I set intentions and while my intention for the year is to experience more joy, I enjoy reading articles and blog posts about reinvention. There is a school of thought that says that we can choose, at various stages of life, to reinvent ourselves. It’s a fascinating concept. Could I, as an aging woman of some physical substance, reinvent myself as a ballerina? Nope. I don’t think so. What I can do is to... Read more
I know I am not the only (ex)wife and mother for whom marriage and motherhood has been a challenge. Marriage is hard. Throw in some kids with issues and family life becomes a crucible – turning up the fire to refine and define us. I know I’m not the only one because I hear from moms who have had similar experiences. Leaving a long-term marriage Five years ago, I left a 33-year marriage. In our family, we dealt with heroin... Read more
Change is the only constant in life. But how do you cope when personal upheaval collides with chaos in the world? It can feel overwhelming. I know this firsthand. After a 33-year marriage ended in divorce, I found myself facing not just the personal changes of rebuilding a life, but doing so in a world that often seems to be spinning out of control. Wars, political strife, cultural shifts, and economic uncertainty are enough to shake anyone, but when they... Read more
Divorce is one of the most challenging life events a person can face. It marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, filled with uncertainties and emotions that can seem overwhelming. However, while the journey may be difficult, it also offers a unique opportunity to rediscover yourself, embrace change, and ultimately thrive. The key to navigating the years after divorce is to focus on personal growth. How? 1. Embrace the Grieving Process Before you can fully... Read more
It has been a challenging few years. The aftermath of divorce from a long-term marriage has been harrowing. Problems with adult children have nearly overwhelmed. But I pressed on. I looked ahead to my favorite time of the year – Christmas! As the holiday season approaches, many of us find ourselves caught up in the hustle and bustle of shopping, decorating, and planning gatherings. However, amidst this flurry of activity, it is essential to pause and reflect on the true... Read more
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