As Christians, we are called to love and support one another through life’s trials, and this includes our sisters in Christ who have experienced the painful journey of divorce. While the church is often seen as a place of healing and refuge, many divorced women may feel excluded or judged rather than embraced. I have personally felt the sting of this stigma. Why does this occur, even in 2025? Image courtesy of Pexels The Couple-Oriented Nature of Church Activities Many... Read more
I don’t make New Year’s resolutions. I set intentions and while my intention for the year is to experience more joy, I enjoy reading articles and blog posts about reinvention. There is a school of thought that says that we can choose, at various stages of life, to reinvent ourselves. It’s a fascinating concept. Could I, as an aging woman of some physical substance, reinvent myself as a ballerina? Nope. I don’t think so. What I can do is to... Read more
I know I am not the only (ex)wife and mother for whom marriage and motherhood has been a challenge. Marriage is hard. Throw in some kids with issues and family life becomes a crucible – turning up the fire to refine and define us. I know I’m not the only one because I hear from moms who have had similar experiences. Leaving a long-term marriage Five years ago, I left a 33-year marriage. In our family, we dealt with heroin... Read more
Change is the only constant in life. But how do you cope when personal upheaval collides with chaos in the world? It can feel overwhelming. I know this firsthand. After a 33-year marriage ended in divorce, I found myself facing not just the personal changes of rebuilding a life, but doing so in a world that often seems to be spinning out of control. Wars, political strife, cultural shifts, and economic uncertainty are enough to shake anyone, but when they... Read more
Divorce is one of the most challenging life events a person can face. It marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, filled with uncertainties and emotions that can seem overwhelming. However, while the journey may be difficult, it also offers a unique opportunity to rediscover yourself, embrace change, and ultimately thrive. The key to navigating the years after divorce is to focus on personal growth. How? 1. Embrace the Grieving Process Before you can fully... Read more
It has been a challenging few years. The aftermath of divorce from a long-term marriage has been harrowing. Problems with adult children have nearly overwhelmed. But I pressed on. I looked ahead to my favorite time of the year – Christmas! As the holiday season approaches, many of us find ourselves caught up in the hustle and bustle of shopping, decorating, and planning gatherings. However, amidst this flurry of activity, it is essential to pause and reflect on the true... Read more
As the holiday season draws near, my thoughts inevitably return to the empty chair at the dinner table. The chair where my daughter once sat. This year, it may be two chairs, as two of my daughters will likely be absent Thanksgiving holds a special place in my heart. It’s my favorite time of year, a day devoted to giving thanks, something I try to practice every day. But having one day set aside for gratitude feels like a special... Read more
When my kids were young, I was a super mom. I could dry every tear, kiss every boo boo and scare away any bogey man. Photo Courtesy of Pixabay One of my daughters approached me with a broken toy once. She said, “Mommy fix this. Mommy fix everything.” Those were glorious days of mothering filled with joy and fun. Stressful, yes, but definitely delightful. As time went on, I lost my fix-it superpowers. I couldn’t fix my then husband’s cancer.... Read more
Wait. I thought parents were supposed to be the teachers of children. As a former homeschooling mom, I was invested in being the teacher of my children. Teach them I did, for better or for worse. In the end, they taught me far greater lessons. Image Courtesy of Pexels.com We try to teach our children to thrive in the world, but sometimes their struggles can invite us to grow in unexpected ways, calling us to deeper maturity, understanding, and spirituality.... Read more
I’ve been divorced. Twice, actually. I married the first time when I was young and scared and stupid. Can God forgive me for that? I married the second time to someone I thought was perfect, who turned out to be as flawed as I am. There are many of us in the pews who are in the same situation. Wondering. Image courtesy of Pixabay Are my sins beyond the grace of God? Some would say yes. Unless they were occasioned... Read more
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