Have you ever heard a preacher say “It’s better to give than to receive” during a tithing sermon? Did you know that the verse he was quoting was actually calling for the exact opposite of what he was doing? The Apostle Paul credited Jesus with this saying even though it appears nowhere else in the Bible—it never shows up in the gospels. What’s even more curious is that Paul almost never quotes Jesus. This is one of only two places where he does that (the other is in Paul’s retelling of the Last Supper, where he repeats a couple of Jesus’ lines from during the meal). Paul references things from the gospels so sparsely that many have argued he may not have been too familiar with them (or else wasn’t particularly concerned with what was in them). I think it’s safe to say most preachers are equally unfamiliar with the context of this famous saying, and what it meant when Paul said it.
When Paul uttered those famous words “It’s better to give than to receive,” he was telling a group of preachers that they should follow his example by providing for their own livelihoods instead of depending financially on their congregations. Listen to what he advised this group of church leaders:
“I have not coveted anyone’s silver or gold or clothing. You yourselves know that these hands of mine have supplied my own needs and the needs of my companions. In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ ”
See, it had already become customary for some church leaders to solicit money for themselves from their churches, and Paul despised this practice (“I would rather die,” he once asserted). Some have suggested that this must have reminded him far too much of the sophists who mooched off of the wealthy class. Whatever the reason, he felt so strongly about this that during what he was certain would be his last trip toward Jerusalem he summoned the leaders of the church in Ephesus and made his final words to them about this issue. “Work for a living,” he essentially told them. “Don’t mooch off your congregations.” Because it’s better to give than to receive.
It would be many years before specialized buildings and furniture and other such expenses would become a part of the Christian faith (most would argue that was a product of the conversion of Emperor Constantine), and in time those things would come to consume the majority of the expenditures of most churches. Today, the largest portion of the budgets of most houses of worship goes to paying for the salaries of the staff members and the expenses related to the ownership and upkeep of the church facilities. Very little of what a church takes in actually goes to help the demographic most frequently mentioned in Jesus’ teachings: the poor. In fact, the place in the New Testament which is most often used to justify the survival of the tithe was in reality a reference to a special collection for those experiencing a famine in Judea. It wasn’t a collection to pay the salaries of local church leaders; it was a unique situation in which Paul was encouraging the Gentile Christians outside of Judea to contribute to the material needs of the Jewish Christians in that region as a sign of solidarity with them. He advised them to be orderly about their fund-raising so that he wouldn’t have to talk about money when he came to visit them later on. It had nothing to do with a tithe or with paying the salaries of ministers.
TL;DR – There was no tithe in the New Testament, and the Apostle Paul quite adamantly encouraged preachers to get real jobs so that they wouldn’t be financially dependent on their congregations. That was what he meant when he told the elders from Ephesus that “It’s better to give than to receive.” So the next time a preacher tosses out that line from the pulpit, feel free to explain to him what he’s saying :)