Why I Owe Kim Kardashian West An Apology

Why I Owe Kim Kardashian West An Apology November 14, 2019

I don’t understand people who say they don’t like Reality TV. It’s such a mixed bag; there’s something in the genre for everyone. I mean, I love watching the strategy in Survivor as much as I love watching the strategy in a good football game. To me, it’s like chess with human pieces. I used to enjoy watching Bam Margera torture his parents on Viva La Bam. Few things have made me laugh as hard as Phil coming home to his entire wardrobe emblazoned with iron-on hamburgers. 

Of course, the shows the genre tends to bring to mind the most, for me, are also vacuous pits of mind-sucking nonsense (not that Viva La Bam isn’t, but we’re all hypocrites). Intellectual black holes for the more daft portion of our species. Shows like Paris Hilton’s The Simple Life, John and Kate Plus Eight and of course, the mind-numbing, shrill, culture-killer that is Keeping Up With The Kardashians. 

I have never had any time for the Kardashians. 

I tried once. I attempted to watch it when a friend insisted I’d love the show. I got about 3 seconds into the muck before I realized that if I waded too far, my sense of self would be held hostage by inanity and creeping brain-rot and there would be no negotiations. 

I have always looked at the Kardashian clan as a group of spoiled, self-important rich kids who complain when Mommy doesn’t get their new Lambo wrapped in the right shade of rose-gold. 

As a gutter-dwelling, bleeding-heart socialist obsessed with making the world a better place for all the forgotten sorts of people, the Kardashians were my goddamned kryptonite. In my forty-two years here on earth, I don’t even think I’ve been in the same room as anything with the word Gucci on it, save for the knock-off wallet I bought in the red light district of Bangkok when I was fifteen. 

Sometimes, though, pieces seem to come together out of nowhere to form a sort of puzzle you didn’t even know you were trying to solve. 

I first perked up when it clicked that one of my heroes, Barry Scheck, who is also the co-founder of the Innocence Project, worked closely with the Kardashian’s late father, Robert. I had no idea that Kim Kardashian’s dad was one of OJ Simpson’s lawyers. I knew that Barry Scheck was part of what we duped the “Dream Team”, but I never saw the connection between the Innocence Project and Kim Kardashian. Not until I tried to watch that nightmarish flop they attempted to pass off as a television show, American Crime Story: The People Vs. O.J. Simpson. It was somewhere in that miscarriage of creativity that it finally clicked for me where the Kardashians got their notoriety. Daddy was on the Dream Team. 

And then, as though synchronicity were a thing, the pieces to the puzzle just kept falling in my lap. I saw an article posted to Facebook about how Kim Kardashian had been quietly fighting to raise awareness for the same prison issues I have obsessed over for decades. I caught a story on Philip DeFranco’s show that mentioned her prison-issue activism and then I saw her tweet something about the same issues. Finally, just a couple of weeks ago, as I was brushing up on the Rodney Reed case, I found an article that highlighted Kim’s relentless attempts to shed light on this miscarriage of justice. 

It all came together. It just kinda clicked into place. Had I given Kim half the chance years ago, I might have realized that she is not as dim as I had thought. I would have known she is a member of the Innocence Project’s extended family. I’d have seen that this woman is anything but the airhead I thought she was and is precisely the sort of person these issues need to become part of the zeitgeist. 

I had done Kim wrong it would seem. 

I mean, sure, she enjoys the fluffier stuff in life, but if we’re being honest, I do too. I spend way too much time thinking about the perfect bowl of ramen, and I have a makeup collecting problem that could land me on the show Hoarders one day. 

It turns out I am not so different from Kim at all. It turns out I’m a judgmental a-hole. 

The fact is, Kim Kardashian has a massive platform, and she is actively using it to affect real change for marginalized people. Not only does she work tirelessly to raise awareness for prison issues, but she experiences success at it too. In 2018, her activism directly led to Donald Trump signing into law the First Step Act, which is a prison reform act aimed at reducing recidivism. The bill, according to Wikipedia, 

retroactively applies the Fair Sentencing Act, allows for employees to store their firearms securely at federal prisons, restricts the use of restraints on pregnant women, expands compassionate release for terminally ill patients, places prisoners closer to family in some cases, authorizes new markets for Federal Prison Industries, mandates de-escalation training for correctional officers and employees, and improves feminine hygiene in prison. 

After Trump signed the act, Kim was recognized as the reason he did so. 

This is more than enough to earn my respect. But this woman is currently studying to pass the bar exam, too. She doesn’t need to. She’s worth hundreds of millions of dollars. She has a lucrative career and owns brands that rake in more money per year than you or I will see in our lifetime. She does not need to become a lawyer. She is doing it because she’s passionate about the same causes I am.

So, Kim (as if you would ever read this) I apologize for being a pretentious edgelord with a superiority complex. I apologize for thinking that just because you were raised with inestimable privilege, you can’t possibly have any depth. I apologize for thinking the only thing you care about what the size of your wallet and your tuckus, respectively.

I apologize because I was wrong.

I’m still not going to watch your television show, but I’m on your side, now. I never thought I would say this, but Kim Kardashian West, you have an ally in me. 

Hire me. Click here. 

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  • Michael Neville

    the red light district of Bangkok when I was fifteen

    I’ve been in Patpong, the red light district of Bangkok, when I was nineteen, it’s not a nice place.

  • Milo C

    I hope she’s doing okay, what with her husband’s recent mental trauma.

  • Even guy-who-thought-Jesus-wanted-him-to-preside-over-the-apocalypse Senator Ted Cruz is asking Governor Abbot to review the Rodney Reed case. Cruz is an evangelical ideologue, but he actually seems to be honest and thoughtful. (Also, he went off-script at the Republican convention and strongly hinted that people shouldn’t vote for Trump.) I guess I owe him and apology. (I’d still be afraid for him to be president.)

  • NikkiofAmystika

    Most of the Kardashians, especially momager Kris, have shrewd business sense, which is the one thing I’ve consistently admired about them. They exaggerate their vacuous-rich-people image on the show because they know that that image gets them viewers, clicks, and eyeballs and ultimately earns them more money.

  • Amused To Death

    Quite an accomplishment for someone whose sole claim to fame is having a fat ass. Of course, she wouldn’t have had that if she didn’t have a father who made is money being the legal fixer for celebrities.

    But there I go again, being all judgemental and stuff. I’ll just shut my brain off and smile now… 😉

  • Chris Hogue

    Kim and reality TV are perfect for each other. They are both vapid and not worth my time. I enjoy watching actual reality on my TV, not mind numbing self aggrandizement.

  • persephone

    I don’t like the show either, but calling Kim vapid is wrong.

    After all, which of you is a millionaire?

  • persephone

    Thank you for the misogyny. If you want to complain about someone riding on daddy’s name and having a fat adz, I would suggest railing on Meghan “Nutmeg” McCain.

  • Chris Hogue

    The one who thinks it’s an accomplishment.

  • Amused To Death

    Who?

    Look, the Kardashians are not producers, they’re products. And Kim’s voluptuous physique has been her only selling point thus far. Google Kim and here’s what you get:

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/1769ff198d323027ea8cd6bfdeeb9a94bf7ad9cffed7dce4a6e7ea6542443312.png