Alain de Botton, Status Anxiety . New York: Pantheon, 2004. 306pp. “Every adult life,” Alain de Botton argues, “could be said to be defined by two great love stories.” The first is the romantic quest for sexual love and companionship, and it is the subject of innumerable poems, stories, and paintings. The other story is “more secret and shameful,” the story of our “quest for love from the world.” “Status anxiety” refers to our gnawing fear of failure in this... Read more