American marriage is unique, argues Andrew Cherlin ( The Marriage-Go-Round: The State of Marriage and the Family in America Today , 9-10), because American marriage marries individualism and marriage: “Family life in America comprises both cultural models – marriage and individualism. Each is part of the cultural tool kit . . . that people use in constructing their personal lives. You can use one set of tools today and another tomorrow. You may cite the prestige and material advantages of... Read more