Living a Holy Lent: Spiritual Counsel for Pastors
Ash Wednesday is on the horizon. The Season of Lent is upon us. In less than two days, we will gather to place ashes on congregants’ foreheads and embark on the Lenten journey. Lent, Holy Week, Advent, and Christmas are the most challenging seasons of the Christian year for spiritual leaders. During Lent, pastors usually have at least one more service or program each week and often spend extra time visiting shut-ins and giving home communions. We plan extra activities to nurture our congregation’s spirituality. Zoom often adds, rather than subtracts, from our responsibilities. We can find ourselves busy rather than spiritually centered during Lent. We can feel our lives cluttered and cumbered rather than experiencing the spiritual decluttering at the heart of a Lenten spirituality. Looking forward to Easter Monday, and rest, and not deepening our faith during Lent, Holy Week, and Easter.
The Busyness of Lent
Then, before we know it, there’s Holy Week with at least two and often as many as six or more extra services to be planned and led. (Filling in for the Senior Pastor of our church, I have five!) Most pastors hardly have time to catch their breath, most less live in the contemplative spirit of Lent and Holy Week. Over the years, I’ve met with groups of pastors who lamented that although they counseled their congregants to spend extra time in prayer, their own prayer lives deteriorated, during these seasons of penitence and retreat. I believe that pastors can heed the Ash Wednesday affirmation, “Repent and believe the Gospel.” We can turn around, choose an alternative ministerial path, reclaim our understanding of prayer, and discover the good news of God’s abundant life in our daily duties. It’s not too late to seize the moment and experience the deep spirit of Lent.
How do pastors live a holy Lent in a time congregational busyness? The answer is obvious, we live a holy Lent by intentionally cultivating our spiritual life through a focus on spiritual disciplines. Spirituality involves a dynamic call and response, joining divine grace and human intentionality. Grace abounds and God is near, but our calling during Lent is to open our hearts to the grace in which we stand. Our challenge is to be agents in shaping our ministries, rather than passively being shaped by the expectations of others.
Intentional Ministry
Like everything important in ministry, the key element of pastoral spiritual formation is intentionality and agency, of opening to God in our daily lives and ministries. Our intentionality shapes our understanding of time. Ministry is a 24/7 profession, but much of a pastor’s time is discretionary, even in Lent, that is, a matter of priorities and prayerful decision-making. Living a holy Lent is not optional for good ministry any more than study is not optional for good preaching or pastoral care unimportant in a pastor’s ministry. Time is of the essence, but not the time of fast-food spirituality. Knowing that we -can never fully manage time, we nevertheless need a slow-cooked spacious spirituality for the Lenten season. Pastors need to make time for retreat during Lent.
Mini-Retreats
Ministry doesn’t need to be done in the hurried pace of focusing on one week at a time, especially in terms of our preaching and worship preparation. The coming of Lent can inspire us to purposeful moments of prayer and meditation and time apart for retreat. As a matter of fact, depending on family obligations, I would suggest that a pastor take minimally three separate, stand alone, retreat days during Lent to gain spiritual perspective and insight on the scriptures as well as God’s presence in her or his life.
These days, or half days, need not be sequential. We simply need to find a quiet place for prayer as did Jesus during times of important decision-making.
While the hour is late in terms of the liturgical calendar, one pathway to a spiritual formation in Lent can begin during the first week of Lent. While ideally, you’ve read the Lenten readings during Epiphany and charted out your sermons for Lent, on Monday or Tuesday prior to Ash Wednesday, you might choose to find a quiet place, where you can spend a full morning or afternoon, or better yet, a whole day in prayerful solitude and study. (If you can’t do this prior to Ash Wednesday, Thursday or Friday following Ash Wednesday will also work.) With nothing but your bible and laptop or journal, take one morning or afternoon simply to read imaginatively once more the Lenten lectionary passages. Let ideas and images emerge through practices such as lectio divina or imaginative prayer or a long preacher’s walk, recording any insights on your phone. Gather these ideas up and begin to reflect on common themes that emerge throughout the season. Let them shape your perspective throughout the Lenten season.
Then, you can choose to take a brief retreat on Ash Wednesday. Rather than scurrying around completing your homily, liturgy, or finding last year’s palm branches to burn for the Ash Wednesday service, begin the morning in prayerful reflection – perhaps in a time of reflection on the meaning of Ash Wednesday as a day of transformation and change, a day to recognize your mortality and seize the moment to live abundantly and faithfully. You may choose to meet for a few hours of prayer and meditation with colleagues in ministry, concluding your time with communion and the imposition of ashes. (If you have an Ash Wednesday Service in the morning, I suggest that you wake up an hour early for retreat time or immediately adjourn to your retreat following the service.) A retreat need not be 24 hours. Two hours can inspire and rejuvenate your spirit.
While the first retreat is more ambient and intuitive, the second scripture-based retreat is more goal-oriented. In this retreat, taking place during the second Thursday or Friday (or a day of your convenience) of Lent, bring your bible and worship resources. Grounding your time in prayerful meditation, take time to harvest key points for your remaining preaching and worship preparation for the remaining weeks of Lent. Take time to reflect on appropriate worship materials, including global and innovative as well as traditional styles of worship. Rough out your Lenten services in advance. Once again, let your retreat time join prayer and preparation for your own spiritual formation as a pastor.
These retreats join prayer, worship, and preaching, and refresh the spirit of ministry. Advance preparation enables the pastor to experience Lent in a more spacious way. Well-prepared pastors can practice what they preach. Amid the busyness of Lent, they have the time to take a weekly morning or afternoon retreat for prayer, meditation, and study each week. I would suggest a regular time each week. Even in the midst of Holy Week and Easter, the spiritually-prepared pastor has time for prayer, exercise, study, and family time. This truly is a matter of priority as well as necessity.
Abundant Ministry
Time can be our friend in ministry, and not an enemy constantly thwarting our purposes. We can experience time and energy in terms of abundance rather than scarcity. We can, like Jesus, find our own places of solitude despite a busy schedule. In the process, our ministries will become more spacious and we will become more hospitable and creative in living out our ministerial duties. We will be less hurried and more present to persons. We may even experience Lent as one long retreat, in which we deepen our spirits through living through a holy Lent in an intentional, leisurely, and effective way. (For more on ministerial spirituality and wellbeing, see A CENTER IN THE CYCLONE: 21ST CENTURY CLERGY SELF-CARE and TENDING TO THE HOLY: THE PRACTICE OF THE PRESENCE OF GOD IN MINISTRY.)
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Bruce Epperly is Theologian in Residence at Westmoreland Congregational United Church of Christ, Bethesda, MD (https://www.westmorelanducc.org/) and a professor in theology and spirituality at Wesley Theological Seminary. He is the author of over 80 books including: “Homegrown Mystics: Restoring the Soul of Our Nation through the Healing Wisdom of America’s Mystics” (Amazon.com: Homegrown Mystics: Restoring Our Nation with the Healing Wisdom of America’s Visionaries: 9781625249142: Epperly, Bruce: Books) “Jesus: Mystic, Healer, and Prophet “(Jesus: Mystic, Healer, and Prophet: Epperly, Bruce: 9781625248732: Amazon.com: Books), Saving Progressive Christianity to Save the Planet”( Saving Progressive Christianity to Save the Planet: Epperly, Bruce G: 9781631999215: Amazon.com: Books), and his most recent book, “God of the Growing Edge: Whitehead and Thurman on Theology, Spirituality and Social Change.” (The God of the Growing Edge: Whitehead and Thurman on Theology, Spirituality, and Social Change: Epperly, Bruce G: 9781631999291: Amazon.comBooks The God of the Growing Edge: Whitehead and Thurman on Theology, Spirituality, and Social Change: Epperly, Bruce G: 9781631999291: Amazon.com: Books
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