by Kelly Crawford from Generation Cedar – Raising Boys Into Men: Tend The Field
Kelly sincerely believes only Christian guys are ‘Take Charge’. Too bad in reality it seems many ‘Good Christian Men’ are either bullies/tin plated dictators or apathetic blame shifters. There doesn’t seem to be many guys between those two toxic polar opposites in the church. Another false charge laid at the feet of feminism by Kelly. Just like women, men are all different and run the gamut of ‘types’ Saying that a religious dogma makes men superior to others without the same beliefs is short-sided, childish and insulting to all men. Talk about man hating.
There is a gross misunderstanding by feminists and the feminist-minded that take-charge men are bullies. Some males are bullies, but those aren’t men. (Raising Men in a Man-Hating World)
Real men don’t abdicate or dictate, or wait on someone else or shift blame when things go wrong, or become apathetic. They take charge, they own their responsibility and they nurture those in their care. They emulate Christ who described himself as a shepherd. He owned his field. He tended his flock. The call to men is still the same.
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